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But he is actually the nicest guy i ve met in a loooong time. So gentleman like. SO nice. He is sweet and super romantic, too. More than me. So i really dont know what to think about this details.
No, he never told me anything about his love life.
I actually told him quite fast: he knows i was always in long serious relationships, he knows i ve only been single the last 5 months, while the rest of my adult life i was in relationships, he probably knows im a relationship oriented person.
All i know about him is that he has been single for the last 4 years!!! he barely wanted to mention his last gf, and seemed that wanted to change the subject when i insisted him this topic.
what do u make of this?
No, he shouldn't assume you are a relationship oriented person. A lot of people in your situation would not be interested in getting back into a relationship, and just be enjoying their freedom.
Once again, I can't make anything of a person I've never met. Why would strangers have any better idea than you - you are the one who "knows" him.
You have to talk to him.
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This is where I'm glad I'm not out in the dating world... a guy takes a girl out for dinner a couple of times, doesn't try and mount her too quick and he's labled "boring"...
You sound like a rough broad to hang out with.....
I'd venture to say you're probably low 20's and don't having any expectations of being treated with some basic respect... growing up in the hookup culture that Gen Y have..
I'm not a prude and most certainly don't expect to wait too long before a woman has sex with me... on the flip side I don't want to be called a "bore" because I'm not trying to put the wood to a woman the minute I meet her......
Jeez......
I don't get it-If a man wants sex "too soon" or "too often" he's a typical male pig who only thinks with his little head, and is probably a misogynist (CD favorite word) but if he waits, and shows the respect that women claim they want but rarely get, he's a"bore" No pleasing some folks is there
I don't get it-If a man wants sex "too soon" or "too often" he's a typical male pig who only thinks with his little head, and is probably a misogynist (CD favorite word) but if he waits, and shows the respect that women claim they want but rarely get, he's a"bore" No pleasing some folks is there
I dont think that a man that wants to have sex right away is a misogynist, i think a misogynist man is the one that assumes that a girl that likes sex is cheap.
I don't get it-If a man wants sex "too soon" or "too often" he's a typical male pig who only thinks with his little head, and is probably a misogynist (CD favorite word) but if he waits, and shows the respect that women claim they want but rarely get, he's a"bore" No pleasing some folks is there
I know... I don't normally whine too much about the dating situation, but I gotta say, I'd be really pissed off if I try and be somewhat of a gentleman and some woman calls me weird and a bore because I'm not trying to nail her right off the bat...
I dont think that a man that wants to have sex right away is a misogynist, i think a misogynist man is the one that assumes that a girl that likes sex is cheap.
Not true at all.....eh, nevermind, I don't want a time out.
Yeah, you and Raena are right. I kind of seem to have a problem with "taking things easy", my anxiety gets the best of me, and that might be why im wary about this thoughts, i dont wanna ruin this getting all anxious or overthinking.
It is so difficult to go with the flow sometimes!
i learned that a long time ago, so i can understand where you are coming from. it will take a bit of work, but you will get the hang of going with the flow and letting things happen.
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Im anxious, i dont like to "not know"
i guess this thread woke up a lot of doubts i didnt know i had. Or deep down i knew.
I dont know if im comfortable about sleeping cuddling with a guy thats not my boyfriend. The sex is not the problem (im ok about having sex with a guy thats not my boyfriend), the hugs, kisses, sleep over, kiss in the morning, making eachother dinner, discussing intimate problems, are the things i have problems with. Those are boyfriend things. And if he is not i rather just have sex, i think.
With your recent breakup/s, I just don't think you're in the right state of mind to be making sound relationship decisions. jmo
oh, I also shook my magic8 ball
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No pleasing some folks is there
