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Old 11-01-2014, 05:36 PM
 
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If you're dating this person, you have put some trust in him already.
Yes, but the key word there is some. Some trust. Not TRUST trust.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:37 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I feel ya times have changed.The news has all kinds of weirdo stories.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:38 PM
 
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Yes, but the key word there is some. Some trust. Not TRUST trust.
My original question to you was when does that tip. By what date do you allow him to park by your curb?
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:39 PM
 
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My original question to you was when does that tip. By what date do you allow him to park by your curb?
That is entirely dependent on the person. Entirely. There is no set rule for that in my book.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:39 PM
 
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Yes, but the key word there is some. Some trust. Not TRUST trust.
And, trust is trust.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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By what date would you be comfortable with it?

I feel the same way you do for the first couple of dates, but if I don't trust a guy by the 3rd date, I shouldn't be dating him.

This makes me curious. Would she have shown him where she lives IF she was really feeling him? I get the feeling that there were no sparks there. Just curious and I can't speak for the op. Was there no spark op? I get the feeling that if she were really into him that she would have shown him where she lived. Then again, I could be dead wrong. Perhaps, she is like that with everybody. I'm not saying that what he did was right. He was definitely in the wrong. I am Just really curious if she would have done that to someone who she really hit it off/ had sparks for.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:41 PM
 
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This makes me curious. Would she have shown him where she lives IF she was really feeling him? I get the feeling that there were no sparks there. Just curious and I can't speak for the op. Was there no spark op? I get the feeling that if she were really into him that she would have shown him where she lived. Then again, I could be dead wrong. Perhaps, she is like that with everybody. I'm not saying that what he did was right. He was definitely in the wrong. I am Just really curious if she would have done that to someone who she really hit it off/ had sparks for.
The chemistry wasn't off the chain, no. I did have some reservations about him. Gut feelings.

That being said, I am like that with everyone. It doesn't matter if I think the guy is awesome and we have amazing chemistry, by the third date I still don't know you and you're not coming to my house.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:42 PM
 
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This makes me curious. Would she have shown him where she lives IF she was really feeling him? I get the feeling that there were no sparks there. Just curious and I can't speak for the op. Was there no spark op? I get the feeling that if she were really into him that she would have shown him where she lived. Then again, I could be dead wrong. Perhaps, she is like that with everybody. I'm not saying that what he did was right. He was definitely in the wrong. I am Just really curious if she would have done that to someone who she really hit it off/ had sparks for.
Maybe the initial pushiness so is what put her off. I wouldn't blame her.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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The chemistry wasn't off the chain, no. I did have some reservations about him. Gut feelings.

That being said, I am like that with everyone. It doesn't matter if I think the guy is awesome and we have amazing chemistry, by the third date I still don't know you and you're not coming to my house.

Fair enough. You have your reasons and he still should have respected them. Wait for that exception. The one that you don't even know will someday be there. Then, you might feel differently.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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Maybe the initial pushiness so is what put her off. I wouldn't blame her.

Me either.
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