As a MALE, WHY DO WOMEN WEAR LESS AND LESS CLOTHES TO EXPOSE THEIR SKIN??? (call, average)

[sackiwanny]

This post is about two different topics.

First off, Lindsey, I love you so please don't take offense, I'm just voicing my opinion and you are welcome to your opinion

Point one, men stare at big booties or big breasts, or skinny girls because they like to. Not because they can't help themselves. If anyone started yelling at them or convincing them in other ways, that it is NOT EVER appropriate to treat a woman, any woman(yes even scantally clad women, girls or even stripper types), like a peice of meat to be drooled over, they would be able to stop.

I completely disagree with the common myth that men have different hormones that are stronger, or are wired differently, or are "visual creatures", compared to women. That is total BS, pardon my language. I am a woman who has been intouch with my sexuality my whole life, I love men, can't ever get enough, masterbate often when I'm single, and think about it when I'm not But, wow, for some reason society raised me to be a "good girl" and not cheat, not even glance at men when I'm in a relationship, and not gunk about others no matter how hard that gets. And ya know what, I do it.

Men on the otherhand are Never taught this unless they were very lucky to have good parents who caught it early enough to teach them what was right. If their parents never outright taught them not to treat women like sexual objects, then they were forced to learn by societies standards what was appropriate. And we all know how men are portrayed as macho ***** on tv, movies, etc. It takes one look at stuff like "the man show", get know what I'm talking about. If you could sit there with a notepad and pick apart everything that was said, you'd see so many examples of male heirarchy in their **** all over women jokes. No offense men, it's not your fault.

Our boys learn these behaviors very early on too. Did you know that the biggest age group for porn consuption is boys ages 13-17????
That says it all right there. And they don't find the girly mags or the girls.com sites alone. Other boys their age or older tell them to look. Then they start looking out of pure innocent curiosity, same as anyone would. Then they keep lookng because it's "funny", then keep on looking for status quo "guess what I saw", and on and on it goes.

Ok, other point. Men who masterbate while married just want sex. They may not be getting it as often as they like. Their wives may withhold it because of pent up resentment, or just not like the way he does it. Nothing wrong with masterbation, sad that they can't get the real thing, but nothing at all wrong with it. It's kinda hot. Lol. Now if these same men are cheating, ie looking at or talking to girls online, that's a whole other topic, and not ok at all. Same as cheating with another woman. Some wives are fine with this, and it also gIves them room to cheat, but most are not. Be really really sure who you marry first.

Originally Posted by Lindsey_Mcfarren

Speaking as a woman with large breasts, I can tell you that 99.9% of men out there can't control themselves long enough to talk to my face rather then my chest and I don't wear revealing things.

I have had everyone from a 12 year old on up to men with walkers galking at me, husbands, Catholic priests, you name it. Men are made differently. Testosterone is a powerful hormone, they clearly can't control it.

Look at the studies that talk about how many times a day a man thinks about sex, how many times a week a married man masturbates even though he is having sex with his partner. They are NOT in control, their hormones are in control.

Proof of this is the fact that men are the ones who are chemically castrated for some offenses in this country. As of yet, no such thing has ever been done to a woman.

[Burb]

Originally Posted by sackiwanny

This post is about two different topics.

First off, Lindsey, I love you so please don't take offense, I'm just voicing my opinion and you are welcome to your opinion

Point one, men stare at big booties or big breasts, or skinny girls because they like to. Not because they can't help themselves. If anyone started yelling at them or convincing them in other ways, that it is NOT EVER appropriate to treat a woman, any woman(yes even scantally clad women, girls or even stripper types), like a peice of meat to be drooled over, they would be able to stop.

I completely disagree with the common myth that men have different hormones that are stronger, or are wired differently, or are "visual creatures", compared to women. That is total BS, pardon my language. I am a woman who has been intouch with my sexuality my whole life, I love men, can't ever get enough, masterbate often when I'm single, and think about it when I'm not But, wow, for some reason society raised me to be a "good girl" and not cheat, not even glance at men when I'm in a relationship, and not gunk about others no matter how hard that gets. And ya know what, I do it.

Men on the otherhand are Never taught this unless they were very lucky to have good parents who caught it early enough to teach them what was right. If their parents never outright taught them not to treat women like sexual objects, then they were forced to learn by societies standards what was appropriate. And we all know how men are portrayed as macho ***** on tv, movies, etc. It takes one look at stuff like "the man show", get know what I'm talking about. If you could sit there with a notepad and pick apart everything that was said, you'd see so many examples of male heirarchy in their **** all over women jokes. No offense men, it's not your fault.

Our boys learn these behaviors very early on too. Did you know that the biggest age group for porn consuption is boys ages 13-17????
That says it all right there. And they don't find the girly mags or the girls.com sites alone. Other boys their age or older tell them to look. Then they start looking out of pure innocent curiosity, same as anyone would. Then they keep lookng because it's "funny", then keep on looking for status quo "guess what I saw", and on and on it goes.

Ok, other point. Men who masterbate while married just want sex. They may not be getting it as often as they like. Their wives may withhold it because of pent up resentment, or just not like the way he does it. Nothing wrong with masterbation, sad that they can't get the real thing, but nothing at all wrong with it. It's kinda hot. Lol. Now if these same men are cheating, ie looking at or talking to girls online, that's a whole other topic, and not ok at all. Same as cheating with another woman. Some wives are fine with this, and it also gIves them room to cheat, but most are not. Be really really sure who you marry first.

Huh? Sorry, what? Please repeat, I missed it the first time, I was staring at your boobs.

[2mares]

Exposes your "buffalo"??? Excuse me? Oh lord.

Buffalo? Is that like a camel toe?

[CASHMONY25]

Women to day don't care who see's them. Women walk right out in front of little kids with their A$$ hanging out of their pants do they care no. Women get married 80% of them will cheat even if the man does nothing wrong.Today's women are so liberal that they don't give a F$ck about anything but the next guy attention and who has the fattest wallet.Women get body augmentation not because of self esteem but because they not only want attention from their husband or boyfriend they want attention from every man that is in line of sight. It's just down right disrespectful.If you are on a date with a good looking lady and she is one of those ladies who like to show skin, just take alittle time out and watch her if a good looking guy such as yourself walks in the bar and takes a seat,every body looks but no! It not enough for her to look she is going to do something to get his attention or strike up a conversation and when you leave the bar you ask her about it, she is going to do this If their is not a god women of today's world betta hope it is not because they have smashed on all of god's comandments and praised man's law.I have yet to see the new revised 2000 version of the bible sent from heaven that says women get loose. Men !women of today are so trafalin from beautiful to ugly they will look you in your face with out flinching and say i love you and at the same time be sleeping with all of your friends and once they are caught they will say the reason for their actions was that they were raped when they were young, that lie is so old they all use itMy mom raised me to treat women like ladies but i learned that that is not waht women really want you can do everything right spend quality time outstanding sex but that is not enough for women today.You can fulfill her fantasy by having sex on a rocket going to mars and that still would not stop her from cheating. Today's world is all about women bein naked and everyshow on televison is a paternity test where the woman swears up and down he is the father only to be wrong. I leave the fellows with this for everywoman you meet not all are bad but you best look at everything she says to you even if it sounds like she is speaking from the depths of her soul like this.and Peace cashmony

[Huckleberry3911948]

desperation. 42 million divorces later since 1975, 75% filed by women. the fish are spooked and the bait keeps getting better. they are no longer fishing for good marriage material, they are fishing for good divorce material.

[TKramar]

Steve, I know you said "no male answers", but could it be for the same reason a guy will walk around in shorts and no shirt on a hot day? Comfort?

For example, I'm walking to work. It's about 45 minutes. I leave my shirt ON, it's soaked by the time I get there, and then I'm hit with that blast of cold air when I walk in. Now I'm working in a soaking wet T-shirt, and totally uncomfortable. Better for me to wait to put it on until right before I get there, after wiping the sweat off my body.

[the minx]

Originally Posted by TKramar

Steve, I know you said "no male answers", but could it be for the same reason a guy will walk around in shorts and no shirt on a hot day? Comfort?

lol @ that. No.

Have you seen some of the stuff these women wear? It's usually skin tight and so short if they move the wrong way it will roll up over their heads. I can't imagine that is comfortable at all.

I saw a girl at the grocery store yesterday wearing cut-offs that were way too short - and so tight that you could tell they were just about cutting off the circulation to her thighs.

[nat_at772]

Originally Posted by TKramar

Steve, I know you said "no male answers", but could it be for the same reason a guy will walk around in shorts and no shirt on a hot day? Comfort?

For example, I'm walking to work. It's about 45 minutes. I leave my shirt ON, it's soaked by the time I get there, and then I'm hit with that blast of cold air when I walk in. Now I'm working in a soaking wet T-shirt, and totally uncomfortable. Better for me to wait to put it on until right before I get there, after wiping the sweat off my body.

Yeah it makes more sense to walk with it especially since when that blast of cold air hits your wet t-shirt your nipples will get hard.

[AllAboutEve]

I think if everyone abandoned clothes altogether there would be a lot less oogling. Covering up is what creates the mystery, and in some cases the perversion. Take for example, other cultures where the women wear no clothes - the body is not objectified.

[Coolhand68]

Originally Posted by LizCab44

I think if everyone abandoned clothes altogether there would be a lot less oogling. Covering up is what creates the mystery, and in some cases the perversion. Take for example, other cultures where the women wear no clothes - the body is not objectified.

Ahem...Do I hear a volunteer?