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how do you know I have no plans to marry him. but I'll change my mind pretty soon if he carries on this way
My point is that there ARE no plans. He has not the least idea how long he's supposed to be waiting.
You won't give him any and he's not supposed to even enjoy himself BY himself.
You'd best get out your old Barbie Dolls.
Have fun. I'm done with this one.
OP, you sound like a 14-year-old girl pitching a fit about not getting your way. He won't act the way you want, so you get pissed and start making threats about leaving etc.
Then you brag about how you could get any man who looks at you on the street.
Meanwhile you don't appear to understand the first thing about sex and emotional intimacy.
Be nicer, go read some books about relationships and finish growing up.
they are average in my opinion and just becsuse other guys thnk im attractive which they do don't mean I'm going to get around with every one of them.and not be tryig to make it work with.someone who i have.
No im not using it to manipulate anyone, he's the one who says if we did do that then he will open up more.emotionally. WHO then is the manipulator can I ask??????? Please don't make assumptions
Maybe he doesn't sound like he wants to marry me and have babies yet he's the one that's planting those seeds in my head.
I would not open up to a woman I am not having sex with. I might open up to a degree in order to build a relationship but one that is clearly not going anywhere is not going to get too deeply into my inner space. Plus I would continue looking at my other options.
That's why I suggest you find someone who also wants to wait until the wedding night.
Men bond with sex. Sex doesn't guarantee bonding, but no sex will usually prevent bonding. There are always exceptions, but it is pretty much how men are wired.
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Men bond with sex. Sex doesn't guarantee bonding, but no sex will usually prevent bonding. There are always exceptions, but it is pretty much how men are wired.
OP you ask why..... but is there any answer to that question that would make you go "oh, okay, cool. That's fine with me."
He is probably using it as spank material.
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My point is that there ARE no plans. He has not the least idea how long he's supposed to be waiting.
You won't give him any and he's not supposed to even enjoy himself BY himself.
You'd best get out your old Barbie Dolls.
Have fun. I'm done with this one.
what exactly does that mean. HE'S THE GUY IN THE RELATIONSHIP, THEREFORE HE SHOULD BE AT LESST INITIATING TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE ETC.so REALLY IT'S UPTO HIM
OP, you sound like a 14-year-old girl pitching a fit about not getting your way. He won't act the way you want, so you get pissed and start making threats about leaving etc.
Then you brag about how you could get any man who looks at you on the street.
Meanwhile you don't appear to understand the first thing about sex and emotional intimacy.
Be nicer, go read some books about relationships and finish growing up.
HOW AM I ACTING LIKE A KID,"IF A GUY IS.GONNA BE An ******* am I gonna accept it, obviously I'm nt gnna wanna hang around.
I AM NICE, all I've been is nice but evryone has a level he's following llike three hundred women and it's pretty much all women and you're condoning that behaviour.
SO TELL ME WHAT IS IT ABOUT SEX AND EMOTIONAL INTIMACY THAT I MUST KNOW?
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