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Old 02-04-2018, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Are women so indiscriminate these days that they are willing to jump in bed with just about anyone? Wow.
Some are. Some aren't.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Maybe the guy just isn't having sex.
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Old 02-04-2018, 09:45 PM
 
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Rhetorical question:

Was chatting with a guy, 40 years old, single no kids, decent job, never been in a relationship longer than a couple of months. Nothing special looks-wise, doesn't seem to be a player either. Didn't strike me as someone who has an endless stream of women willing to have no-strings sex with.

How does sex work in this context? To me, seems like, as a young man, he has been either:
a. "hiring" women
b. has had someone steady on the side to have sex with outside of relationship
c. low sex drive

This is probably wrong and/or simplistic... But I can't help but wonder

Thoughts?
You said it yourself he's nothing special looks-wise so women aren't attracted to him thus he's not having any and doesn't care. Much like myself.
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Old 02-04-2018, 09:53 PM
 
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yes... stop playing on the Internet and go outside
The actual answer is for some men yes and others no. Nothing in life is a guaranteed certainty.
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Old 02-04-2018, 10:10 PM
 
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How does sex work in this context? To me, seems like, as a young man, he has been either:

a. "hiring" women
This is how I deal with it and wouldn't choose an alternative if you put a gun to my head.
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Old 02-05-2018, 08:07 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I know those kind of men. On rare occasion they go somewhere with friends and some woman there likes them and throws herself on him. Or he gets really drunk and has the courage to flirt and gets a one night stand. Or he goes on vacation to a cheap country with desperate women who jump on that lonely guy at the bar.


There is someone for everyone even if it is just for a very short time.
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Old 02-05-2018, 08:09 AM
 
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That's me except im 37.

Like the guy you described im just not attractive to women..
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Old 02-05-2018, 08:10 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I'll answer with a question: is it that easy to find a new woman every couple months to have casual sex with?
That's a lot easier than finding a relationship. Sadly, as I'd rather have a relationship.
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Old 02-05-2018, 08:27 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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It's possible he had a fling or two. It happens. Or maybe it just hasn't happened for him. Who knows.
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Old 02-05-2018, 08:31 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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That's me except im 37.

Like the guy you described im just not attractive to women..
okay so... what about sex?
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Old 02-05-2018, 08:33 AM
 
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okay so... what about sex?
Havent had it..
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