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Old 03-14-2012, 07:25 PM
 
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I am getting better at my game. Why wouldn't you want to be a player? Girls go for them. Why do you think nice guys finish last?
I honestly believe that while everybody can find love, only some guys are true ladies men. For guys like myself, either that lifestyle is not appealing or too much work to keep up. some guys are built for being casanovas, others are built for more intimate relationships.
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Old 03-14-2012, 07:46 PM
 
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That makes two of us.
Second time I have heard this.
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Old 03-14-2012, 07:48 PM
 
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I honestly believe that while everybody can find love, only some guys are true ladies men. For guys like myself, either that lifestyle is not appealing or too much work to keep up. some guys are built for being casanovas, others are built for more intimate relationships.
True ladies men are players. They can never keep a lady for a long time.
Ladies men can be intimate too. If you have lot of money to throw away to these ladies then you will be good at it.
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Old 03-14-2012, 09:30 PM
 
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True ladies men are players. They can never keep a lady for a long time.
Ladies men can be intimate too. If you have lot of money to throw away to these ladies then you will be good at it.
I disagree with this and I think it's a really bad misconception that guys have about women. How many stories have you heard about rich men getting cheated on by women? Conversely, I've seen and heard guys living with their moms, without a dime to their name get plenty of action. Even my own brother was one such guy for a while but he's doing very well for himself now.

The thing is that, whatever you want to call it; game, great social skills, charisma, swag, smoothness whatever you want to call it seems to make you more of a ladies man.
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Old 03-14-2012, 10:48 PM
 
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Good looks does not make a man a player. Its that guy that knows how to charm his way into your pants, regardless of what he looks like that can potentially be a player. I"ve known ugly guys who get laid all the time!
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Old 03-14-2012, 10:51 PM
 
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so far, I have met 2 players - both older than me and well-established. I got my heartbroken once.

I guess I was/am too naive..and I am really trying to be smarter in this game...

how I can tell if he is a player? any signs?

ps. guys on this forum please don't send me msgs if you have the same motive as a player!!!

if I can tell, how I can play a player?

any female players on here?

ps. female players, do send me msgs or reply to this thread, thanks!!


ir you are tired of being PLAYED and dont like being PLAYED ........ why tire and waste your time doing someting you dont like others to do to you.
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Old 03-15-2012, 11:21 AM
 
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Good looks does not make a man a player. Its that guy that knows how to charm his way into your pants, regardless of what he looks like that can potentially be a player. I"ve known ugly guys who get laid all the time!
I never said good looks make a man a player. My friend is really good looking but he would never be a player, he doesn't have the skills. I said being attractive to women (whatever mixture of looks, confidence, charm, etc) raises the opportunity cost of being monogamous.
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Old 03-15-2012, 11:40 AM
 
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How to make many (real) women want you...

A guy must know how a women thinks, he must love the touch, feel, smell of a real woman. He needs the confidence to look her in the eye and communicate. He needs the experience to know the right thing to say and how to say it. He needs the education, money, job, security that makes him highly desirable.

A man needs to know how to make great unselfish love to a woman so she wants more. A man needs a sense of humor to make her laugh. He needs to show her things she's never seen like the symphony or a museum.

A man is humble yet is polished, has experience, humor, education and offer the potential of security. A real man knows the answers before he asks the questions.

A real man takes his time and can have about 80% of the women he meets. It's up to him to know how and when to make it happen.

A real man is in control. That's how a guy can have all the women he wants.
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Old 03-15-2012, 11:43 AM
 
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When it comes to obtaining the possible benefits and perks inherent in a successful relationship with a woman, I don't think there is anything such thing as a truly shy man. Men are hard wired to go after what they want. It's genetic. It's biological. Women can get their feelings hurt chasing "shy" men. What is coming off as "shy" to the woman is a man running from her because he doesn't want her, and he is too well-bred to state that rudely. I'd say at most, approach a man you like one time, be alert for real cues that he is into you. If you don't perceive any coming from him, just back off.
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Old 03-15-2012, 11:45 AM
 
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Don't hate the player, hate the game.
It's not about hating players, it's about ducking a suckah before he can get to you and get you all "DIS-com-bob-u-lated"! Without players, there would be no game.
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