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I'm 68 , the guy I'm dating is 67 - who has lived in the family home FREE for the past 23 years, takes care of his 93 y.o. mother 2x a day making her breakfast and dinner. He has not held a full time job for the past 2 years, collected unemployment and now only works 2 days a week as a taxi dispatcher. He has a BA degree, married 2x, one son 39 y.o. who refuses to speak o him. Also my guy has NO friends in the 23 years in the same city, no outside interests and no goals. Has a 21 y.o car, no credit, pays with cash - I decided to do a background check and saw that he has 16 judgments against him totaling $28K. T
The only thing He has going is a law suit which he believes he will be rewarded a couple of million dollars. In his favor is that His character is loving, and caring, but it bothers me that he lacks ambition. Me...I have assets and own a few pieces of real estate and have always been an entrepreneur. Question: Dump? or Keep?
His lack of ambition will not change. If it bothers you now, think about a year from now.
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A person that has what some call no ambition may just be content with their life.
One old saying about that is "to want what you have "
What bothers me more is those that have wants but do nothing to obtain them.
That is, to me, is a troublesome lack of ambition.
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One, in my 20s. She was smoking. But, that's best for when one is in one's 20s.
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