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Old 11-19-2009, 09:16 AM
 
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How sad... I'm sorry you feel that way

I've had both men and women (strangers as well as friends) tell me I'm beautiful. I usually refer them to an optometrist . It's flattering of course, but it doesn't affect how I feel about myself, or how I treat others.

I believe in the inherent goodness of people, and am usually not disappointed. I can't say that I've ever experienced any jealousy from women because of the way I look (definitely not beautiful, perhaps just happy and peaceful.) My experience is that women are generally very supportive and affirming.
Karuna95, there's a lot of rotten folks out there, unfortunately. For what it's worth, I would probably fall in the category of the folks you call "inherently good." Unfortunately, as I'm sure you know, not all people are like that.

And perhaps you just rain into an unusually large % of truly good people.
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Old 11-19-2009, 09:20 AM
 
Location: EPWV
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Originally Posted by Frankie117
Women are enemies until something makes them friends, and men are friends until something makes them enemies..

Hmmm, Food for thought.
Pretty much seen that in action too. Tks for sharing.
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Old 11-20-2009, 04:32 PM
 
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I think good looks are a curse.
I've gotten along with many women who are way pretty or way smarter than me. What I don't like, regardless, are braggarts, even the disguised ones.
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Old 11-20-2009, 04:40 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Frankie117
Women are enemies until something makes them friends, and men are friends until something makes them enemies..

Hmmm, Food for thought.
Pretty much seen that in action too. Tks for sharing.
That is a great quote!!

A lot of women are miserable so they project that misery onto others. Try to associate yourself with happy women and your looks won't matter because they are happy and secure within themselves and know they don't gain anything by trying to bring you down.
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Old 12-07-2009, 09:58 AM
 
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Default women nasty to other women

A lot of women are nasty to other women. They want the attention of your man, and every other man. I guess it makes them feel special. But look out if you interact with their man. I consider where it is coming from and do not participate in their nonsence. Most men will say "it's all in your head, we don't do that!!!!"...meanwhile they are participating in the nonsence with these women. And do not kid yourself....the men love the attention. Causes a lot of needless stress in relationships. Be thankful if you have a good relationship, and cut the bull.
If a woman can't speak to a woman, but can eagerly to a man....consider where it is coming from. Who needs that crap. Just ignore them. It's all B.S.
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Old 12-07-2009, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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This is something I get 100% of the time when I go out. It's about jealousy and being insecure and unhappy with themselves. It's unbelievable how women act towards me when I'm just standing there minding my own business. My ex's would all laugh about it. My brother didn't believe me until we went out together one night and he saw all the claws come out. He was very surprised that grown women actually act like that! It's really pathetic to tell you the truth!!
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Old 12-07-2009, 01:54 PM
 
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I've gotten along with many women who are way pretty or way smarter than me. What I don't like, regardless, are braggarts, even the disguised ones.
Is this suppose to be some sort of personal attack?

Honey I know I look good. I am not in disguise *snap*
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Old 12-07-2009, 01:55 PM
 
Location: southern california
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60% of americans are fat, 1 in 3 is obese.
the new american sin, skinny.
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Old 12-07-2009, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Houston/Heights
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Most of my Lady Friends, don't like other Women as Friends. they say they can't be trusted. --I just grin
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Old 12-07-2009, 02:51 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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When I was younger I was threatened by beautiful women. Now, it would take a Victoria Secret model for me to even notice. I've got a life, a job, and stuff to do. I don't really even pay attention to the people around me unless its a cashier ringing me up or something. I just don't have time to care what anybody else is doing, looks like, etc.
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