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Old 01-20-2010, 05:22 PM
 
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Did anyone ask TVSG?
The question wasn't "why don't men pursue men anymore?".

 
Old 01-20-2010, 05:38 PM
 
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The question wasn't "why don't men pursue men anymore?".
Because they learned their lesson in the 9th grade!LMAO............. Now are going to act decent now? I might even help you straighten yourself up and get off the booze. I can't help with the DUI's though. You could have killed someone?
 
Old 01-20-2010, 05:39 PM
 
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Because they learned their lesson in the 9th grade!LMAO............. Now are going to act decent now? I might even help you straighten yourself up and get off the booze. I can't help with the DUI's though. You could have killed someone?
Lol, what??
 
Old 01-20-2010, 05:58 PM
 
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Lol, what??
This guy that I have known since school. He sweet talked a girl I was interested in and somehow convinced her into thinking he was the better man. He had great pick-up lines BTW. He then thought he would discourage me away by starting a fight with me on the school bus. He lost! It didn't matter and she still ended up with him.He then ended up marring her and divorcing her with 2 kids. She tried to get me to take her in when she came to her senses. You had your chance and blew it. Now you have a deadbeat ex that is one of the town drunks. What comes around goes around.
 
Old 01-20-2010, 06:07 PM
 
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Lol, Mr. Rugged, I am thoroughly confused. Not hard though, I'm not a very deep thinker. =-)
 
Old 01-20-2010, 06:16 PM
 
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Lol, Mr. Rugged, I am thoroughly confused. Not hard though, I'm not a very deep thinker. =-)
Go back a few posts.
 
Old 01-21-2010, 07:37 AM
 
Location: Phoenix
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By the time a man is in his 40s, his attitude is "who needs this?"


There you go....the answer that took 22 pages. This is why men don't pursue!
Yep. That's it in a nutshell. I suspect the over 40 set had similar issues when we were younger. I know I didn't pay attention or care about their problems when I was in my 20s.

The truth is both men and women have changed over the years. How can we not? The world doesn't stop for us. Our priorities change with our experiences. Think of it this way. Men or women can be confident enough to enjoy pursuing or being pursued. If you don't feel like pursuing, don't.

BTW: I'm in my mid 50s, but can remember being asked out by girls when in my 20s. Even then it wasn't necasarily a turn off. If she was confident and wasn't desparate it could be good. That seems to sum up what I've seen from some of the women about being asked out by men in this thread.

To be honest, I haven't asked a woman out or exchanged phone numbers in a long time. But the last time I just asked to exchange numbers with mine in hand. This has been an interesting thread.
 
Old 01-21-2010, 08:05 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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The question wasn't "why don't men pursue men anymore?".
Before the 1950s male bisexuality was more common than it is today.

Don't worry, the increased female bisexuality will lead to the acceptance of male bisexuality unfortunately.

This world is screwed.
 
Old 01-22-2010, 12:51 PM
 
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I have been noticing this lately and it frankly annoys the hell out of me.

Men waiting on women to pursue them. Giving THEIR number to women instead of the other way around. It just goes on and on.

And this seems to be more of an American male thing.

I'm telling you, American men arew acting wayyy too much like women for me.
 
Old 01-22-2010, 01:11 PM
 
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Ahhh...the fruits of equality and the single parenthood culture. Poor mating choices and the subsequent lack of male role models has begotten us a nation of men who dont know how to take initiative, or just dont know that they are supposed to. Progress indeed.

http://newslite.tv/2009/04/03/men-pi...over-thei.html
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