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Old 06-02-2010, 10:05 PM
Location: Colorado Springs, CO
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Do not confuse knowing someone very well, for a long time, and even someone who has been a big part of your life ... it's not love. You may really love her .. but you can't have everything you love. It's clear to me that the relationship has been troubled for some time. It's as if you are trying to pound square pegss into round holes! Try as you may, it will never work. Who is to blame, what was done wrong, etc - it's all a waste of time. Try to learn from this relationship and become a stronger person. You are very lucky to learn these lessons while you are young - it will help you with future relationships.
I strongly suggest you find a copy of the book, "A Road less Traveled". Wonderful book. I stop and read it from time to time.
Best wishes.
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Old 06-03-2010, 03:14 AM
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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I guess you've learned that after 4.5 years, you didn't know her as well as you thought you did !
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Old 02-19-2019, 05:34 PM
Location: Boulder, CO
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No idea why you resurrected a nine year old thread, but I'll bet you the original poster never saw a dime in repayment for financing the woman's master's degree.
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Old 02-19-2019, 05:54 PM
Location: Tricity, PL
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Originally Posted by louiloui View Post
I think she just is not that into you anymore, the romantic relationship is over for her, but she feels bad for you because she has taken so much from you financially and emotionally. I would cut my losses and move on, you seem like a nice guy and frankly you should think you're too good for her. There are plenty of women out there who are looking for a steady, caring guy. Good luck.
This was 9 years ago. I am sure lots has changed for OP since then.
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