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BTW, for all moral freaks out there, there is no measuring stick. If you cheat, it is the same thing as telling a lie or stealing an item to permanently deprive another of its use.
You thinking about brad pitt's long D in your mouth or Cynthia sitting on your lap is the same as you being with another man/woman. We can't choose as we see fit. Again, there is no measuring stick but people all seem to be about convenience.
Watching porn is the same as cheating. A lap dance is cheating but people do it. But in reality, it's all from the same place. Therefore, the point is that we ARE ALL GUILTY.
But in our minds, we ALL think of some type of well, "if she knows and accepts it, if I don't go all the way, if I come home before 10pm, then it should be ok". We literally do this but the reality is we are all guilty. You taking a double look is just a bad as you going all the way...
You don't speak for me. I don't fantasize about other men, my husband and I don't watch porn, and he doesn't go anywhere for lap dances. So no - we're not "all guilty."
I know for a fact that my husband isn't cheating. And I've been around the block to say that resolutely. First and foremost, his parents are in a loving marriage of over 40 years. I have personally witnessed how they are. They raised him to take marriage vows seriously. To be a cheat would go against the way that he was raised. For me to cheat would go against the way that I was raised. Neither of us are special snowflakes for being that way. It's just natural.
Since we know how serious cheating is, we definitely would make all efforts to first try and correct any issues. But we both know that once the trust is broken, it's broken. Fine'. Done. Trust is the foundation of our relationship. Because of that, I don't bother with asking where he is at all times, checking his phone/social media accounts, etc. And he doesn't do that to me. We both realize that there are big things at stake.
Right on.
My husband and I have both been married before, to people who cheated on us. We are both the products of long, monogamous marriages and have a higher standard than that. We expect our spouses to remain faithful and we have no problem remaining faithful ourselves. I'm 53 years old, have always been a pretty attractive and sensual woman, and have never, not once, ever cheated on a boyfriend or husband. I have absolutely no desire to complicate my life that way. I don't need it, don't want it, and the very idea is repulsive and stupid to me. My husband feels the same way. He is 57 years old. Believe me, neither of us wants or needs the stupid drama and life altering reality of an affair. We have no tolerance for one and no desire for one.
There are lots of people out there "like us." The trick is finding one!
I think a lot of those accounts are like Match.com sign up take a peek go back to wife........but there could be some good blackmail coming out of high profile ones.
Truly sad that there are many of you that support the hacking of this site and their member's information. What people do with their lives is between the people in their lives. Just because they 'might' be having an affair, this doesn't give people free reign to commit crimes against them. I don't condone cheating at all, but I also believe that people have a right to their privacy and that includes their personal information on sites like this.
Truly sad that there are many of you that support the hacking of this site and their member's information. What people do with their lives is between the people in their lives. Just because they 'might' be having an affair, this doesn't give people free reign to commit crimes against them. I don't condone cheating at all, but I also believe that people have a right to their privacy and that includes their personal information on sites like this.
This does raise a few moral questions, for sure. Obviously two wrongs don't make a right, but, on the other hand, I feel like there are a lot of spouses out there that probably deserve to know their partners are being unfaithful so they can move on to more productive and fulfilling, honest, relationships. I understand the privacy thing. I really do. but people shouldn't have free reign to actively ruin marriages or make people believe things are fine when they aren't.
What are you even talking about? He doesn't even live in the state. Happened twice. What, you think I sit & pine for him & refuse to date? Lol, I'm sorry to burst your bubble.
Well, you did say that the reason it seemed like a good idea to you was you had gone without sex for a long time. So there obviously weren't many willing single dudes. Lots of people are demonizimg you but I actually feel really bad for you. No one chooses to be the side chick when they have other options. Kinda sad.
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My husband and I have both been married before, to people who cheated on us. We are both the products of long, monogamous marriages and have a higher standard than that. We expect our spouses to remain faithful and we have no problem remaining faithful ourselves. I'm 53 years old, have always been a pretty attractive and sensual woman, and have never, not once, ever cheated on a boyfriend or husband. I have absolutely no desire to complicate my life that way. I don't need it, don't want it, and the very idea is repulsive and stupid to me. My husband feels the same way. He is 57 years old. Believe me, neither of us wants or needs the stupid drama and life altering reality of an affair. We have no tolerance for one and no desire for one.
There are lots of people out there "like us." The trick is finding one!
Finding one probably is easier said than done
If 40 mm users are cheating spouse this will sadly discourage a lot of people from marriage
Soooo... you obviously don't care about this man in the least bit, now, do you? If you did, you wouldn't keep acting in such a way.
Why not just find a single man? There are plenty out there. What you're doing is disgusting. Very much so.
Right on.
Last time I checked, if someone single has sex with someone who is married, they're both committing adultery.
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