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Old 07-20-2015, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Ca2Mo2Ga2Va!
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Maybe they've been cheated on or have cheated on someone before, that's why they're so rabid about it. I don't know. Maybe because I'm single I just can't be so sanctimonious about cheating right now. I slept with a married dude, the one I talked about a few posts earlier. Did I feel bad? Well, no. He doesn't live in the state & I don't know the wife whatsoever but I do know the situation he's in. Sorry if that offends anyone, I'm sure you'll all call me a sl*t, homewrecker, what have you but the reality is, someone is in a sexless marriage & they are looking for a release. I hadn't had sex in a long long long time so I was agreeable to it. Did I think of the wife during it? Nope. It happened a couple times, whenever he was in town. Will it happen again if he comes back into town? Probably. Call me evil!
maybe because you aren't married you can't understand...i've been married 30 years in september (i had to stop and do the math lol) and i've not been cheated on or have cheated on my husband because call me weird, but i'm married, i took vows...i think both you and the husband that did the cheating are really f'd up people, him more so because he was married and had everything to lose and hurt his family....you just kind of **** me off with your flippant attitude about it and the big old smiley face at the end. i hope he doesn't have kids.
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Old 07-20-2015, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Flawduh
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maybe because you aren't married you can't understand...i've been married 30 years in september (i had to stop and do the math lol) and i've not been cheated on or have cheated on my husband because call me weird, but i'm married, i took vows...i think both you and the husband that did the cheating are really f'd up people, him more so because he was married and had everything to lose and hurt his family....you just kind of **** me off with your flippant attitude about it and the big old smiley face at the end. i hope he doesn't have kids.
This, especially since it's a recurring thing -- no remorse felt whatsoever.
With so many single men out there, why would you chose to repeatedly have sex with a married man?
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Old 07-20-2015, 12:44 PM
 
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Maybe they've been cheated on or have cheated on someone before, that's why they're so rabid about it. I don't know. Maybe because I'm single I just can't be so sanctimonious about cheating right now. I slept with a married dude, the one I talked about a few posts earlier. Did I feel bad? Well, no. He doesn't live in the state & I don't know the wife whatsoever but I do know the situation he's in. Sorry if that offends anyone, I'm sure you'll all call me a sl*t, homewrecker, what have you but the reality is, someone is in a sexless marriage & they are looking for a release. I hadn't had sex in a long long long time so I was agreeable to it. Did I think of the wife during it? Nope. It happened a couple times, whenever he was in town. Will it happen again if he comes back into town? Probably. Call me evil!
Honestly no one cares what you do.....
But let's see how hard you're laughing
when you're finally with the guy of your dreams.....
(if you're actually not butt ugly) and you
actually have the stupidity to think
he's being faithful to you ......

Lmao its gonna bite you in the ass.
Cheaters are scum.
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Old 07-20-2015, 12:44 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Honestly babe, my low life brother used my name when he created that account.

Hackers will get Bogus alias names with bogus old email accounts.

Last edited by Rakin; 07-20-2015 at 12:58 PM..
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Old 07-20-2015, 12:48 PM
 
Location: Round Rock, Texas
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Maybe they've been cheated on or have cheated on someone before, that's why they're so rabid about it. I don't know. Maybe because I'm single I just can't be so sanctimonious about cheating right now. I slept with a married dude, the one I talked about a few posts earlier. Did I feel bad? Well, no. He doesn't live in the state & I don't know the wife whatsoever but I do know the situation he's in. Sorry if that offends anyone, I'm sure you'll all call me a sl*t, homewrecker, what have you but the reality is, someone is in a sexless marriage & they are looking for a release. I hadn't had sex in a long long long time so I was agreeable to it. Did I think of the wife during it? Nope. It happened a couple times, whenever he was in town. Will it happen again if he comes back into town? Probably. Call me evil!
haven't been cheated on. haven't cheating on ANYONE. If the relationship went south, we split up. Simple as that. I've seen the toll philandering has taken on friends and family, enough for me to form very clear opinions about it and feel the way that I do. Marriage is based on trust. Simply put. If that trust is broken, then what is there left? Oh, I know, trying to keep up appearances with the kids and the friends. But in a person's heart, the knife will always twist and hurt. And this goes for both genders, as I've witnessed the pain to both sexes.

I will refrain from personally labeling you anything, but I don't agree with it. As you said upthread, he needed to be a big boy and just leave and remain friends instead of trying to have it all. They had no kids. They could travel the world and do whatever as friends. They didn't need to masquerade as husband and wife.
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Old 07-20-2015, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Montgomery County, PA
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There are already 83 posts on this a few threads above.
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Old 07-20-2015, 01:13 PM
 
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maybe because you aren't married you can't understand...i've been married 30 years in september (i had to stop and do the math lol) and i've not been cheated on or have cheated on my husband because call me weird, but i'm married, i took vows...i think both you and the husband that did the cheating are really f'd up people, him more so because he was married and had everything to lose and hurt his family....you just kind of **** me off with your flippant attitude about it and the big old smiley face at the end. i hope he doesn't have kids.
being fair, you probably wouldnt know if your hubby tapped someone else....its not something a person readily admits to
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Old 07-20-2015, 01:16 PM
 
Location: Ca2Mo2Ga2Va!
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being fair, you probably wouldnt know if your hubby tapped someone else....its not something a person readily admits to
well no i wouldn't, just like none of us here would BUT he's never given me reason not to trust him...so do we just assume our spouse "tapped someone" because we honestly might not know? do i go on now and treat him like a cheater because there's that possibility? i think i'll keep on trusting that he hasn't "tapped someone" because he's just not the cheating type and has some pretty good morals
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Old 07-20-2015, 01:35 PM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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I'd love to see the list exposed to the world so we can get a better idea of who actually takes their marriages and relationships seriously. I'd imagine many spouses have the gut feeling they have been cheated on and won't do anything without any proof. I have little sympathy for those who cheat because they did not care about the damage they were causing. The ones who get caught are usually upset because they were caught, and not because of what they did.

Release the list!
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Old 07-20-2015, 02:04 PM
 
Location: North Texas
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Ha, and all this time I thought Ashley Madison was a fashion or fragrance company. Occasionally it's good to be an analog individual living in a digital world.
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