lol. I don't know where you get the idea i live in a cockroach infested apartment. I pointed out in an earlier post that I first lived in a ground floor apartment with a courtyard and lots of foliage and plants, there were roaches but cleanliness had nothing to do with it. Little buggers slipped in thru the screen door.. I think you live in a world where most live in a high rise apartment and dont' normally hitch a ride uptown to your floor.
Where I live is very clean and safe. I do not have a kitchen, but I choose to live here. i have a ton of food choices outside my door and I love living like that. I could afford to pay $400-500 more in rent if I wanted, but I love eating out. I also love walking 4 blocks to Bishop St for work. And yes, I buy shoes. I just bought a pair at Aldo on Friday. These beautiful black oxford style buckled ones for about $110.00. I like to shop at Ross and avg a good $15-20 for pants and the same for shirts on an as needed basis, but I also love going to Iolani Shirts by Ala Moana or Noa Noa at Ward and buy shirts as well for about $75.00. Once in a while. Hawaii is not a place where you need to spent a lot of clothes vs. San Francisco where I spent an avg of $120 for pants and a good $350-500 for jackets and loved going to Churchs English shoes and dropping a good amount on a nice pair of wingtips. Not because prices were as so there, but I loved clothes, I loved ties, jackets and buying good quality ones. Ive certainly learned how to change my habits since moving here. I have no idea why you think i live in squalor. I eat out often and enjoy things. I may not dine at Alan Wongs or Morimoto's, but I do eat out. I have a pssion for vintage fragrances and buy once in awhile as well.
I bet you love that one. Next you'll be saying i'm living in a cockroach infested apartment eating beans out of a can admiring my shoes and spraying myself with cologne while looking for work. **snort**
Look, let me break it down for you,
$15/hr = $600 week or roughly $480 take home per week. (and yes health ins. is included)
$480x 4 = $1920 month take home
I also have a freelance gig which pays me about $50-80 week very small hours, but that money goes straight into savings and is not used for computing purposes below:
I pay Verizon about $82 for my Droid phone with extras.
I pay $42 for roadrunner internet
I pay $25 for netflix (still gotta lower that one as I dont use it as often)
I pay $29 for gym monthly membership
i have a commitment for undisclosed for $150 month.,
Minus those expenses, that leave me ~$1620 for food and rent.
I give myself a budget of $150 per week for food. That might be high for some or low for others.
What does that leave me for rent and savings? about $1000. (remembering my freelance gig already has money going straight into savings which is not touched)
now I can choose to spend out of that amount, a rent which suits me and my purposes. I specifically choose to live where I do and am able to save a nice amount each month. I could apply that to a much more higher priced apartmetn or share, but "I" choose not to. I am fine where I am at this point. i'm sure our good readers here will know how to interpret my costs vs. theirs ie. if they have student loans, credit card payments, alimony, child support und so weiter...
Sorry, there are many many just like me. Those having good decent honest jobs which require skill and thought, but that just don't pay like we hope. I stand by my assessment that you are out of touch with the average Oahu worker bee of all ages. So basically you're telling me, in your day to day life, that every single person you hand your credit card to, or hand a $20 bill to, in any of the stores, foodland, safeway, restaurants, bars etc on this island is certain to be making a wage higher than i am? or anybody over a certain age? I have no shame or no hesitations on sharing my experiences with anybody. I know from the private messages I've received that there are others like me on this board too but who just dont want to seemingly be discounted or ridiculed by you or others (well, just by you) for not earning what you feel is the norm. I am not an RN seeking a high paying job or an IT specialist being recruited from the mainland. i'm a person who lives here, makes my own choices, have made good decisions and bad decisions and have had my ups and downs like everybody else. Just to point out something, a Marketing Communications Specialist position at Mission Houses Museum went up a month or so ago. Perfectly respectable position. Somebody in their 40s or 50s would be proud to have that. Lots of duties and very detailed as well. Pay? $15.80 per hour! That is pretty normal for those types of roles. You may surround yourself with people working in professions such as doctors, nurses, ceo's, financial analysts etc., but i am assuring you (again) that this is not abnormal for Hawaii.
The questions that are being asked and that I am answering are 'Can we make it in hawaii'. Which i interpret as being "is it possible". i am not condoning any type of lifestyle, nor promising that someone will find an apartment, find a job, find that nirvana they are looking for. I'm just answering the possibilities. I believe those who read these boards are intelligent enough to look at all aspects and assess the risks involved in a move to Hawaii. if somebody chooses to plan and wait for ten years
or if somebody decides on a whim to dive off the cliff of life and give it a try tomorrow, that is up to them. I'd like to think they have a plan b or c involved, but all i can give is what i have experienced.
in a nutshell, I never said life was perfect or bragged about my life here (as the viper alluded to earlier in another thread) and what I earned. I certainly don't earn what i hoped vs. what i earned in San francisco. But this is not uncommon with many positions. I am certainly in no way alone in my experiences here. But I want to clarify, (I am positive others have read my posts and get it) that I eat nicely, drink good coffee, go out for a drink here and there, I have cable,,I have a tv, I have a computer, a netbook, a good phone, I buy clothes once in a while (and shoes.. Nordstrom Rack is a great place for good shoes), have never seen a rat or a mouse in any place i've lived. Do not live in a roach infested place. I don't have a/c, but that certainly is no barometer for living in squalor or not.
I've written a lot again. And what I write is really for the benefit of others, as the person who is criticizing allows me to further give impressions that may or may not benefit someone, what he thinks of me has no bearing on my day to day life. I just like helping others to make an informed decision that is best for them. I think I am very clear in this post so in this thread, there is nothing more to add. Viper, take it away!