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It is insulting. Just because someone is Asian doesn't mean that they signed up to play "Guess My Ethnicity!" simply by being out in public.
Caucasians don't get randomly addressed in a variety of European languages by someone hazarding a guess what their national origin might be.
If someone did hazard a guess at what my national origin might be, guess what? I would be happy to answer. It's interesting to know where people originated, and some people are curious and like to guess.
There is absolutely no insult there unless you want to be insulted and want to have something to complain about.
I don't think the OP said anything about being "insulted," just annoyed. And yes, it is annoying. To just be going about your business, doing your day to day routine, and some grinning stranger starts hopping up and down in front of you like a puppy, bombarding you with multiple guesses about your ethnicity and place of birth, and implying an expectation for you to confirm those guesses? The dude's a freak.
It's not necessarily an insult, but when I go out in public and interact with the world, that sort of foolishness is not the sort of thing I am usually expecting to have to swat aside. I'm not likely to have a lot of patience for that crap.
I don’t speak either of my parent’s native languages, and we spoke English anyway. One or two people in my life have done what the OP described. My response was to smile and tell them, “I know what that means but I do not speak the language.” That was enough to satisfy their curiosity (or whatever) without being nasty.
The only people I get angry at are those who think I somehow was wasteful, disrespectful of my parents’ background, etc etc because I did not learn their two languages. The reason our household spoke English was because it was neutral ground. Their own countries used to be at war with each other, and during fights they would actually dredge it up! So, in our home, English was the language of peaceful relations. If some idiotic third party chose to make it anything else, that is THEIR problem.
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