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The sex drive is great for reproduction...creation...when applied for recreational purpose...it can get you into trouble...It's a drug....My youngest son just got married..his wife is nice enough..but I do see one thing..she knows the power of addiction..and the boy sure likes his sex..He is willing to give up a brighter future...for the instant pleasure...yep...it is a curse...and as the drive weakens as you age...your mind and judgement improve..you get wise...but it's no fun at all...I liked it better being dumb and supposedly happy...oh well....we all get our turn to be young...still...WHEN you are older...some woman do not like the fact that you can not be controlled by sex....
I see older woman dating super young males because of the power factor...even if the older man is good in bed..they don't want guy that is wise to the game.
as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
I believe my sex drive is a curse in that I hardly have one.
OP - I understand from where you are coming from. My perception today is vastly changed though, and I hope you can do a similar kind of alchemy in your own life. Today I see my life as abundant, I am surrounded by beautiful women that want to lay with me (alone or together), to feel my love, to just be in my presence on a regular basis. I have infinite love and finally realize it after decades of self-doubt. With that realization, others see and feel it when around me.
My own sexual energy, which in the past was overflowing so much that porn could barely keep it under control (and I regularly attracted women who craved sex as much as me - a couple times a day or more), is now still very potent but completely under my influence and willpower. I have given up porn as I saw clearly that the problem with it is this... it isn't revealing enough. It doesn't reveal the love and relationship history of those having sex, and it doesn't show the post coital cuddling and pillow talk. That's the stuff that does it for me and which does it for my lovers.
If there's something I wish I had heard when I was much younger it is this: You, my young brother, are a god playing in an infinitely awesome sandbox. Your perception and Will literally changes reality around you as you move through space and time. Although you may not realize the truth of these words right now, someday, you will, and I recommend not waiting until upon your deathbed my friend.
You must enter what I call the major leagues if you are interested by:
1) take caring of yourself physically... take up yoga, learn the proper way to eat and what to eat,
2) work on yourself mentally... meditate and read the writings of more enlightened beings such as Eckhart Tolle, Ram Dass, and numerous others who brought some rich philosophical and spiritual ideas to the West the past 40 or so years. Read voraciously, and also take advantage of technology which now brings to you podcasts and audio books in case you don't have time to sit and read for long periods of time.
3) Realize you are just a perception change away from living in heaven... find a circle of friends that build you up and with which you can talk in person about stuff like this. Avoid those that bring you down.
4) Get the basics of your life in order so you no longer have to worry about them - finances, etc. This stuff is incredibly easy to get a handle on and to make easy to manage. When you no longer have to focus your lens of perception on this base-level stuff, you will better be able to focus upon your development in other areas.
I believe my sex drive is a curse in that I hardly have one.
Well, I'm not a guy, but I'm sure I don't have the sex drive of the average woman. I have sexual fantasies all the time, every day, even right now as we speak, but I prefer to just think about it than to make it a reality. Reality is what messes everything up.
One woman will tell she likes guys who make her laugh, another one will tell you she likes guys with six pack abs and square pecs, another one likes men that are doctors and lawyers, etc. You will never guess it right with women.
Indeed, how DARE women behave as individual human beings with their own insterests!? They should behave like a hivemind so poor poor men like you can get laid.
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Like I was saying that good looking women that gave you a cold stare from hell, may be saving your life. With all the stuff that goes on in a woman's vagina, it's possible her vagina could be classified as a toxic waste site and just as deadly. In short, vagina can kill you. As woman exert their rights in the bedroom and demand cunnilingus, more and more men are being diagnosed with oral and throat cancer because some of the vaginas they served are contaminated with cancer ridden strains of HPV and that's just one of the diseases to worry about.
The toxic vagina. Much better than a vagina dentata.
The animal instinct to pass on the good genes is inherent in us all and if it is really important to one who wants to have children, you only want to mate to capture the characteristics that you find attractive.
But, some of us are dogs.
Take Ghengis Khan for example. The man was a prolific breeder ! Quote:1 in 200 men direct descendants of Genghis Khan
Sex Drive is not a curse its mostly really how you re act.
I have had more better control since really sleeping with any random woman gets old at some point.
My sex drive only goes crazy when I find someone massively attractive not just on looks but someone with the right attitude.
A woman to me should be very beautiful inside and out.
I could not sleep with someone who has a bad attitude.
as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
I think its totally the opposite and its women who suffer from lack of sex and intimacy. No matter what, it is easier for men because most men only need physical looks in a woman to some extent to be turned on and be satisfied. Whereas a woman often feels no attraction unless she can see him as the one.
Also, men have more access to women giving or selling sex and looks are not required. Also just by design and anatomy women naturally have nurturing and fsoft instincts which can appease men in general and make him feel like a man whereas it doesn't work the same with women. Men can easily objectify women like food and drink, be satiated and satisfied by different ones whereas women need the personal whole knight in shining armor package.
Also, women past middle age are seen as dried up whereas older men are seen as more masculine and experienced. Even gray hair on men I seen as distinguished. Again also it is easier for an older man to start a new life with a younger woman and have family. Older women can't.
Also, after any breakup, it was me the female who was also be grieving, healing wondering where/when my next potentially better relationship will happen while the male easily goes on to appease itself and have fun with sex and affairs with women.
It is a major fallacy that women control sex. So many women don't or can't or unsatisfied because men have so many options at cheating as in they are easily infatuated with numerous females for intimacy.
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