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Could someone please explain why its always the fault of American women that some (lazy, loser, socially inept) American men can not find love? I think that the problem starts (and ends) there. The mere fact that these men believe that they have to leave the country to find a mate is indicative of their own shortcomings, so they find the need to fish in the murky waters of the 3rd world's needy women pool for a mate.
Do these men honestly think that some hot 19 year old women from a banana republic really wants to (enthusiatically) have sex with these 50 year old balding, beer bellied, teeny "wieny" men who lack social skills?
Why can't these men just admit that THEY are the problem?
I live in a medium sized city in the midwest. Im not bad looking but kind of small 5'7" 150 lbs. Never made more than $12 an hour until I met my wife and I was able to hold out for better money. I dont drink but I go out and have a big family of brothers and sisters. I have antoher brother who started late and ran into the same troubles I did. He ended up marrying a woman with a family and now they are getting divorced. He has a son from that marriage.
Where do you live in this utopia where no matter how old a fella is there is a chaste and cherub maiden in waiting.
I live in a medium sized city in the midwest. Im not bad looking but kind of small 5'7" 150 lbs. Never made more than $12 an hour until I met my wife and I was able to hold out for better money. I dont drink but I go out and have a big family of brothers and sisters. I have antoher brother who started late and ran into the same troubles I did. He ended up marrying a woman with a family and now they are getting divorced. He has a son from that marriage.
Where do you live in this utopia where no matter how old a fella is there is a chaste and cherub maiden in waiting.
Maybe you need to change your standards. Why would a beautiful, chaste woman chose you over someone who has more to offer?
Could someone please explain why its always the fault of American women that some (lazy, loser, socially inept) American men can not find love? I think that the problem starts (and ends) there. The mere fact that these men believe that they have to leave the country to find a mate is indicative of their own shortcomings, so they find the need to fish in the murky waters of the 3rd world's needy women pool for a mate.
Do these men honestly think that some hot 19 year old women from a banana republic really wants to (enthusiatically) have sex with these 50 year old balding, beer bellied, teeny "wieny" men who lack social skills?
Why can't these men just admit that THEY are the problem?
So, its ok for you to believe that you deserve a beautiful woman even though you have very little to offer. Yet its not ok for a beautiful woman to believe that she deserves a partner who will provide her with the life that she desires.
You are not entitled to a woman who is a "10" just because you believe that you deserve to spend the rest of your life with a beautiful woman. I'm sure that you would have found love already if you were more realistic about that fact that you are not what a woman considers a "10".
Could someone please explain why its always the fault of American women that some (lazy, loser, socially inept) American men can not find love? I think that the problem starts (and ends) there. The mere fact that these men believe that they have to leave the country to find a mate is indicative of their own shortcomings, so they find the need to fish in the murky waters of the 3rd world's needy women pool for a mate.
Do these men honestly think that some hot 19 year old women from a banana republic really wants to (enthusiatically) have sex with these 50 year old balding, beer bellied, teeny "wieny" men who lack social skills?
Why can't these men just admit that THEY are the problem?
Defensive are we? That Tom Brady must be a loser who couldnt find love because he married a Brazilian. George Clooney is practically married to an italian he must be socially inept. Keep putting things in your head and telling yourself whatever makes you feel good. Salma Hayek was rated the most desirable woman recently amongst men from the US. American women IN GENERAL were so much more attractive before feminism. For those of us that care about more than just looks on our women to include those things which truly are important in this world, South and central America is a great , close option. I dont think somebody should go there just to find a mate, I directed the thread at the poster in another thread so that he wouldnt make the mistake of doing the mail order thing in russia or Thailand. He should go take a Spanish immersion program down there, or something along the lines to better himself, and then see what happens while he was down there. My friend met his wife while in medical school in Guadalajara, my other buddy met his wife while in the Peace Corps in Argentina, and yet another met a wonderful venezualan dentist while he was down there in Spanish immersion school.
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