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Old 06-06-2012, 11:08 AM
 
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I invited him to tell us more - he didn't.

If posters want an "accurate gauge" of their situations they need to give all the facts upfront in their first post.

Too many of them backpeddle in subsequent posts, so I tend to believe that what they say first is actually pretty accurate.
Or maybe she drove over to his place since his most recent post, knocked on his door, and gunned him down when he answered. It could happen.

 
Old 06-06-2012, 11:08 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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No. We'll never know because he didn't bother to tell us. It might not have been just that conversation. Instead, it might have been the last of any number of conversations and he was just tired of it.

I mean, seriously, haven't you ever reached a point with someone where you finally snap and say, "That's it. I'm done"? The offense that triggered it might have been trivial in and of itself, but it could have been the culmination of a lot of things.
Sure - you could be spot on

But we can only go by what he wrote.

And what he wrote does not reflect well on him.

He comes off looking lazy and pathetic.

It just is what it is!
 
Old 06-06-2012, 11:22 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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The lack of sophistication from some posters concerning mature adult relationships is surprising, especially considering how often those posters come to this forum.

She doesn't have needs, I said that in the opening post. I am a doctor, I deal with people's needs. She's just a rich woman looking for constant excitement. The rich are different, people.

Oh well, back to your daily 22 year-old female: "He done me wrong"...
 
Old 06-06-2012, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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The lack of sophistication from some posters concerning mature adult relationships is surprising, especially considering how often those posters come to this forum.

She doesn't have needs, I said that in the opening post. I am a doctor, I deal with people's needs. She's just a rich woman looking for constant excitement. The rich are different, people.

Oh well, back to your daily 22 year-old female: "He done me wrong"...
The rich are not different, it is your perception that causes you to believe in the 1% vs. 99% crapola.

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Old 06-06-2012, 11:27 AM
 
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I answered her statement, "You don't have needs, just desires. And if you did have needs, I would'nt have the time nor the desire to fulfill them." Without hesitation she responded flatly, "OK".
Sounds like you thought she'd be okay with being FWB.

She can get a younger man for that if she wanted that.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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Sure - you could be spot on

But we can only go by what he wrote.

And what he wrote does not reflect well on him.

He comes off looking lazy and pathetic.

It just is what it is!

I don't think him lazy, he could have stayed the night, then left, but he got up, put his clothes on, then left...
 
Old 06-06-2012, 11:28 AM
 
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The lack of sophistication from some posters concerning mature adult relationships is surprising, especially considering how often those posters come to this forum.

She doesn't have needs, I said that in the opening post. I am a doctor, I deal with people's needs. She's just a rich woman looking for constant excitement. The rich are different, people.

Oh well, back to your daily 22 year-old female: "He done me wrong"...
As a physician I am sure you ARE capable of meeting someone's physical needs - anatomy is a subject you should know a lot about.

I said earlier that she likely was referring to her emotional needs, not necessarily just physical ones.

It strikes me as odd, and lazy, that you didn't even bother to ask.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 11:29 AM
 
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I don't think him lazy, he could have stayed the night, then left, but he got up, put his clothes on, then left...
Funny

But you know I mean emotionally lazy
 
Old 06-06-2012, 11:30 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Danbo1957 View Post
The lack of sophistication from some posters concerning mature adult relationships is surprising, especially considering how often those posters come to this forum.

She doesn't have needs, I said that in the opening post. I am a doctor, I deal with people's needs. She's just a rich woman looking for constant excitement. The rich are different, people.

Oh well, back to your daily 22 year-old female: "He done me wrong"...
mature adult relationships usually involve more communication than you seem willing to give. You are picking at her word "needs" when it's a very common term people use. It's like when my kids say "I'm starving!" and I say "you can't be starving until you go without food for at least 3 days" She may have been confrontational and overdramatic, and she may have had one foot out the door, but she also seemed to be giving you a chance to adjust yourself for the sake of the relationship. You didn't even give it a thought or ask her what that would involve. I wonder if you gave her the answer she was expecting.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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Funny

But you know I mean emotionally lazy
LOL...fact is they communicated. Maybe not well, but they did...at 50 ish he nor she has time to spare...cut to the chase, she should have been more direct...or siad "don't go, lets' talk... but her flat "ok" seemed pretty "done" to me.

on the other hand, why do I even give a rats butt. lol
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