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Old 06-10-2012, 12:47 AM
 
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She's a wealthy fifty-ish, divorced real estate agent with no children whom I've dated over the last nine months; I'm a fifty-five-ish, busy physician.

I answered her statement, "You don't have needs, just desires. And if you did have needs, I would'nt have the time nor the desire to fulfill them." Without hesitation she responded flatly, "OK".

I uncuddled, got up, got dressed, then while turning toward the bedroom doorI said, "Good bye". Driving home, I saw those moments over in my mind as watching a scene in a movie. Politeness goes a long way...

Thought I'd share.
That's just awesome!

 
Old 06-11-2012, 07:09 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I think he DID care - more than he wants to admit.

Thus his attempt to come off looking so blase' about the whole ending where she told him she had needs he wasn't meeting.
This is still my gut reaction....
 
Old 06-11-2012, 09:00 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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So basically he's lame in bed.
 
Old 06-11-2012, 09:12 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Huck has it:
Now thats funny.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Danbo1957 View Post
She's a wealthy fifty-ish, divorced real estate agent with no children whom I've dated over the last nine months; I'm a fifty-five-ish, busy physician.

I answered her statement, "You don't have needs, just desires. And if you did have needs, I would'nt have the time nor the desire to fulfill them." Without hesitation she responded flatly, "OK".

I uncuddled, got up, got dressed, then while turning toward the bedroom doorI said, "Good bye". Driving home, I saw those moments over in my mind as watching a scene in a movie. Politeness goes a long way...

Thought I'd share.
How eloquently spoken.... reminds me of Melvin Udall in the movie,
"As Good As It Gets".
 
Old 06-11-2012, 09:19 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Casual sex is different than what I do, I do NOT have sex with strangers. I choose to date several women at the same time, but I get to know each woman fairly well before I ask for that first date.
Oh...I beg to differ. If your dating several women, who date several men...well...you can do the math.
 
Old 06-11-2012, 10:06 PM
 
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Oh...I beg to differ. If your dating several women, who date several men...well...you can do the math.

It's an explosion of risks!
 
Old 06-12-2012, 04:53 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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I read this post. Why do so many people think it's about sex? It's more often about intimacy - both emotional and sexual - at a shared level.

I don't like the words "needs", either. I do favor direct communication: "I want....".
 
Old 11-18-2013, 06:24 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Considering he left her, I don't think he has to save face or has any regrets. But your mind is so little that you can't possibly see any situation where the woman was wrong, and the man right. I get it.
Uh, speaking of little minds, go back and read the first page.
 
Old 11-18-2013, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Simple. She dumped me because she's bored and wants a new lover.
Dead or Alive- Brand new lover lyrics - YouTube
 
Old 11-18-2013, 08:11 PM
 
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Considering he left her
This is a great example of how the guys on this forum who have trouble with women also just have trouble understanding basic social stuff. She left him.
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