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you don't know anything about this guy...how can you make these assumptions? He walks away from a chick who was dumping him...with out all the histrionics...and now he is some kind of cold hearted SOB s l u t ...don't you folks have problems of your own to deal with before your judgements?
I DO know what he shared from his opening statement. And im sincerely asking him a couple of vital questions pertaining to his own welfare. I regret if my questions hit a little too close to home for yourself . Lastly, youre not 'judging someone' when they publicly state thier escapades of sexual immorality --- Im just asking followup questions regarding it.
I have no problem with anything - FWB is a great relationship while it lasts so long as both partners are on the same page. The woman in the OP is 55, she's not a child, she knows the score. That she is never married, retired at 55, self-sufficient says to me that she likes not having strings attached to her. I know several women like her. Her statement "You are not meeting my needs" is a definite "time to move on" message. No love invested, no expectation of anything more than a friend with whom to enjoy dinners/movies/plays/trips and sex.
As for him, his reaction shows that he was clearly on the same page as she - NSA. He wasn't being rejected, it was simply that it was time to move on.
Good for you, OP. I keep telling people that a FWB/NSA relationship can be awesome. Some people can't handle it; and some have no idea what it really is. I think it can be awesome when it is a true FWB.
I DO know what he shared from his opening statement. And im sincerely asking him a couple of vital questions pertaining to his own welfare. I regret if my questions hit a little too close to home for yourself . Lastly, youre not 'judging someone' when they publicly state thier escapades of sexual immorality --- Im just asking followup questions regarding it.
once again..sexual immorality is your opinion. Get over yourself.
She's a wealthy fifty-ish, divorced real estate agent with no children whom I've dated over the last nine months; I'm a fifty-five-ish, busy physician.
I answered her statement, "You don't have needs, just desires. And if you did have needs, I would'nt have the time nor the desire to fulfill them." Without hesitation she responded flatly, "OK".
I uncuddled, got up, got dressed, then while turning toward the bedroom doorI said, "Good bye". Driving home, I saw those moments over in my mind as watching a scene in a movie. Politeness goes a long way...
Thought I'd share.
Did you care about this lady at all ... or was it just a quick roll in the hay?
I have no problem with anything - FWB is a great relationship while it lasts so long as both partners are on the same page. The woman in the OP is 55, she's not a child, she knows the score. That she is never married, retired at 55, self-sufficient says to me that she likes not having strings attached to her. I know several women like her. Her statement "You are not meeting my needs" is a definite "time to move on" message. No love invested, no expectation of anything more than a friend with whom to enjoy dinners/movies/plays/trips and sex.
As for him, his reaction shows that he was clearly on the same page as she - NSA. He wasn't being rejected, it was simply that it was time to move on.
Good for you, OP. I keep telling people that a FWB/NSA relationship can be awesome. Some people can't handle it; and some have no idea what it really is. I think it can be awesome when it is a true FWB.
I agree with this.... I haven't read all the posts but it seems like both parties got what they wanted out of the relationship and were ready to move on after some fun experiences together. The relationship had run its course. I have also known quite a few emotionally healthy people in relationships like this.
FWB/NSA relationships are great when both parties are on the same page... It gets tricky when one person gets overly emotionally involved despite intentions being clearly communicated from the start. I have posted about rejecting multiple marriage proposals in my past. But some posters can't seem to fathom a person being in a relationship and not looking for a lifelong commitment. As you said, some people can't handle it.
How do you know that he cared that much? Weren't they both happy with the way things ended?
If he's happy about how things ended, why is he posting here about it?
idk, I haven't understood the OP from the start. If it was a FWB, friends make an effort to meet each others' needs. Otherwise, what's in it for the woman? Nothing.
This whole scenario makes no sense to me. It sounds like he was using this woman for sex, and when she asked him to step up to the plate and make sure she got her turn, he was rude to her and walked away.
How do you know that he cared that much? Weren't they both happy with the way things ended?
First of all, if he was really happy about it, he likely would not have created this thread.
But more importantly, he would not have started ragging on her and blaming the ending all on her and how she's so rich and spoiled and needs more excitement - insinuating that there is something really wrong with her.
If the breakup had indeed been his idea, he'd have no reason to badmouth her at all.
Bottom line from what I got from his posts, she made a statement/observation that he didn't like and that bruised his ego.
Rather than get to the bottom of what she meant and actually deal with it, he turned tail and ran.
Casual sex is different than what I do, I do NOT have sex with strangers. I choose to date several women at the same time, but I get to know each woman fairly well before I ask for that first date.
sounds like the line escorts give as to why they are different hookers on the street
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