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Relationships end. I just related how this one did, simple and clean; I stated the reason why. Most relationships drag on way past their due, and the final ending leaves each partner drained, angry and hurt. That last night, I left her happy and satisfied; and we both are abled to fondly remember our nine months together...
No. We'll never know because he didn't bother to tell us. It might not have been just that conversation. Instead, it might have been the last of any number of conversations and he was just tired of it.
I mean, seriously, haven't you ever reached a point with someone where you finally snap and say, "That's it. I'm done"? The offense that triggered it might have been trivial in and of itself, but it could have been the culmination of a lot of things.
Yeah, I have. But somehow, his post didn't sound like that to me. It sounded like it was meant to be a "Hey check out how smoothly and calmly I dumped this chick last night - woot!".
I didn't think he sounded sincere or caring or concerned or ANYTHING that I would have empathy for. He just sounded like a sh*t.
My BF had a different take on this....the guy was waiting for an excuse to end it anyway...she gave him an opening...he took it.
This is true for the most part; though, it's hard to walk away from a stunning woman.
Again, her true need is constant excitement from her lovers, especially that rush of emotion that teases at her life-long fantasies. I just turned out to be a predictable doctor with a daily practice of treating sick people.
Again, relationships evolve and then end. If you get the chance to end it somewhat respectfully, so much the better for all.
This is true for the most part; though, it's hard to walk away from a stunning woman.
If you wanted to end it, then why do you keep blaming her like below?
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Again, her true need is constant excitement from her lovers, especially that rush of emotion that teases at her life-long fantasies. I just turned out to be a predictable doctor with a daily practice of treating sick people.
You never answered my question of how you know this to be true. Did she say this or are you just guessing this?
She's a wealthy fifty-ish, divorced real estate agent with no children whom I've dated over the last nine months; I'm a fifty-five-ish, busy physician.
I answered her statement, "You don't have needs, just desires. And if you did have needs, I would'nt have the time nor the desire to fulfill them." Without hesitation she responded flatly, "OK".
I uncuddled, got up, got dressed, then while turning toward the bedroom doorI said, "Good bye". Driving home, I saw those moments over in my mind as watching a scene in a movie. Politeness goes a long way...
She's a wealthy fifty-ish, divorced real estate agent with no children whom I've dated over the last nine months; I'm a fifty-five-ish, busy physician.
I answered her statement, "You don't have needs, just desires. And if you did have needs, I would'nt have the time nor the desire to fulfill them." Without hesitation she responded flatly, "OK".
I uncuddled, got up, got dressed, then while turning toward the bedroom doorI said, "Good bye". Driving home, I saw those moments over in my mind as watching a scene in a movie. Politeness goes a long way...
Thought I'd share.
You think this was polite? How does someone make it to their 50s and still be this clueless? You told her that she was not worth your time or energy and her response of "ok" was her realizing that you don't care for her in the slightest and that means she's better off without you.
Yeah, real polite. Just because there was no drama, no crying, screaming, shouting, etc - doesn't mean it was "polite".
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