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Old 06-06-2012, 04:24 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Prince Frog: I don't think you read very clearly. She just had the big "O", and then dumped him. If a man did this, the women would be screaming bloody murder. If the man had just said, "You're starting to get fat, you need to lose some weight", what might your reaction be toward him or any man.? That's really no different than saying, "you're not meeting my needs"

 
Old 06-06-2012, 04:32 PM
 
Location: GIlbert, AZ
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Originally Posted by The Dissenter View Post
If you know this subforum, some women here are just waiting to jump on any guy for something.
but not in the way we would like to be jumped on
 
Old 06-06-2012, 04:43 PM
 
Location: The State Line
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains View Post
You miss the point...

Before a man decides is something if "reasonable or something that can be changed" he has to stick around long enough to COMMUNICATE with is lover.

He couldn't be bothered to do that.
She probably wasn't meeting his needs, either.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 04:45 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Prairieparson View Post
Prince Frog: I don't think you read very clearly. She just had the big "O", and then dumped him. If a man did this, the women would be screaming bloody murder. If the man had just said, "You're starting to get fat, you need to lose some weight", what might your reaction be toward him or any man.? That's really no different than saying, "you're not meeting my needs"
right because he can be so sure that he gave her the Big O...that could just be his ego talking.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 05:04 PM
 
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She broke up with me. Just in a very polite, clean way. Just after a huge orgasm that "she'd been waiting for all day."

She loved my horses, the trips through the Hill Country, and my veal scallopine. Doctors are reliable, responsible, and practical, ...well "she can find that anywhere". The woman wants the excitement of the new, the flashy, the edge. Great while it lasted. But when an adult woman says that it's over, it's over-- an adult man agrees.
But you are assuming this.

Why did you not ask her what the problem was?

I don't find this method of communication that you both have (which you call clean and polite) effective at all. Both of you communicated too bluntly, and more importantly, too little.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 05:04 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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Relationships end. I just related how this one did, simple and clean; I stated the reason why. Most relationships drag on way past their due, and the final ending leaves each partner drained, angry and hurt. That last night, I left her happy and satisfied; and we both are abled to fondly remember our nine months together...
 
Old 06-06-2012, 05:07 PM
 
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Relationships end. I just related how this one did, simple and clean; I stated the reason why. Most relationships drag on way past their due, and the final ending leaves each partner drained, angry and hurt. That last night, I left her happy and satisfied; and we both are abled to fondly remember our nine months together...
Come on. You're not happy with this ending and neither is she.

You two probably pride yourselves are being so "mature" too. I think you both could communicate better. It takes a lot of guts to express yourself emotionally... way more than it does to just walk.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 05:15 PM
 
Location: GIlbert, AZ
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Relationships end. I just related how this one did, simple and clean; I stated the reason why. Most relationships drag on way past their due, and the final ending leaves each partner drained, angry and hurt. That last night, I left her happy and satisfied; and we both are abled to fondly remember our nine months together...
until she shows up with her WAH WAH...and it looks like you.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 05:29 PM
 
Location: Australia
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As a wise friend once said...if you can't cut the mustard, you can at least lick the jar.

Putting your panties on and going home is the sign of an adolescent who really doesn't deserve having a naked woman in bed with him in the first place.
 
Old 06-06-2012, 05:48 PM
 
Location: GIlbert, AZ
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As a wise friend once said...if you can't cut the mustard, you can at least lick the jar.

Putting your panties on and going home is the sign of an adolescent who really doesn't deserve having a naked woman in bed with him in the first place.
wow..look what this mean lady just wrote...YEESH...man hater for sure.
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