Guys: Do you really mind if a girl can't cook? (kids, friend)

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by Jordyloves

Does it really bother y'all that much? Seriously, is food that big a deal?

It's not that I can't cook. I can, I'm good at baking. It's just I don't like cooking! It takes too long and I'm not patient... AT ALL!

All this crap about the way to a man's heart is food. WTF!

A women who can't cook is useless.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by 14Bricks

A women who can't cook is useless.

Ah. So you'd be willing to get involved with a woman who cooks, but doesn't offer love or sex? Duly noted.

[jade408]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Just curious: so how did he feed himself after his divorce?

That is a good question. But this was a really weird date...and he kept transitioning the subject to sex all the time...so I never could get a direct answer to lots of questions.

Not a red flag at all.

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

yes its very modern to not cook or clean but it means i end up doing both. we all need to pull our own weight.

But I bet they're not too modern to have men still pay for dates.

[dub dub II]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Ah. So you'd be willing to get involved with a woman who cooks, but doesn't offer love or sex? Duly noted.

A woman who defines herself by her ability to provide sex is only as useful as every other human on the planet....not very.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by jade408

That is a good question. But this was a really weird date...and he kept transitioning the subject to sex all the time...so I never could get a direct answer to lots of questions.

Not a red flag at all.

I can see a branch industry developing, in relation to prostitution. Hookers who can cook. For an extra fee, she'll make you a home-cooked meal after the sex. Heaven, for men!

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Ah. So you'd be willing to get involved with a woman who cooks, but doesn't offer love or sex? Duly noted.

No, and want both. And if a women can't offer neither, she's of no use to me, I might as well live by myself.

[Nairobi]

Grow up, ladies. Just because a man says he wants a woman that can cook doesn't mean that he can't/doesn't cook or that he wouldn't ever prepare any of the meals.

[OngletNYC]

I find it strange that so many women are actually proud of their inability to cook. I see it right on this thread. Since when is a lack of ability something to be proud of?

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by OngletNYC

I find it strange that so many women are actually proud of their inability to cook. I see it right on this thread. Since when is a lack of ability something to be proud of?

Part of the feminist movement.

"I can do what I want! No cooky foe me!"