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Old 01-08-2013, 10:45 AM
 
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I'm an excellent cook...it hasn't helped me at all in the dating world. In a world of microwaved foodstuffs, I just don't think most men think it's as important.
I hate microwave food.
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Old 01-08-2013, 10:46 AM
 
Location: NY
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Fun thread.

I always tell my wife the way to a man's heart is through his stomach! Of course, I am not serious, but hey, a good meal never hurts either!

My wife is not always the best cook. We have had some, well, interesting experiments. With certain things I am a better cook (although I am no chef either). However, she does try very hard and has been getting progressively better! I love the effort as much as anything.
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Old 01-08-2013, 10:50 AM
 
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I agree. If the woman is my age, in her 30s, and can't cook, it is a problem. I learned how to cook, because no one was making my food, and eating out all the time is not healthy or financially smart. Those are both qualities I like in women.

It is very simple to find a recipe online, buy the ingredients, and follow directions.

It is even simpler to use a crockpot.

So, yes, I do mind if a woman can't cook.
I've been cooking forever.

While I've been cooking for a long time, I have to dispute that online recipes are always simple. Sure there are a ton of recipes out there, but they are often incomplete or inaccurate. Sometimes you need to add more liquid, or the cooking time is wrong.

I'd invest in a "basic" cookbook, or there are even some good kid cookbooks out there. I also like Cooks Illustrated magazine as it gives very detailed instructions.
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Old 01-09-2013, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Trumbull/Danbury
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Does it really bother y'all that much? Seriously, is food that big a deal?

It's not that I can't cook. I can, I'm good at baking. It's just I don't like cooking! It takes too long and I'm not patient... AT ALL!

All this crap about the way to a man's heart is food. WTF!


I'd do the cooking for her, so no, doesn't bother me at all.
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Old 01-09-2013, 04:48 PM
 
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Thru the years i had alot of young women work for me and one trend i have noticed is that they dont like to cook (baking aint cookin) but the guys do. The ones that do have been taught by their grandmothers not the mother so i assume they eat out a lot. Both my sons cook and their buddies get together for parties showing off their dishes. Strange very strange.
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Old 01-09-2013, 05:23 PM
 
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I dunno, it doesn't seem to stop these women from getting married. I get to hear the stories of having mac and cheese, hungry mans, and dollar hamburgers because even the SAHMs can't be bothered to turn on the stove.

I feel really bad for the kids.
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Old 01-09-2013, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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I hate microwave food.

Same here my GF & I are trying to get back into shape & that microwaveable food most of it is terrible for you. Besides we both enjoy cooking way too much.
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Old 01-10-2013, 07:44 AM
 
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I've been cooking forever.

While I've been cooking for a long time, I have to dispute that online recipes are always simple. Sure there are a ton of recipes out there, but they are often incomplete or inaccurate. Sometimes you need to add more liquid, or the cooking time is wrong.

I'd invest in a "basic" cookbook, or there are even some good kid cookbooks out there. I also like Cooks Illustrated magazine as it gives very detailed instructions.
Basically, what I was trying to say, is that it is easy to find simple recipes, follow instructions, and use a little brain power to figure out if the food needs to cook a little longer.

Online, or go check a few cookbooks out from the library, but not trying is lazy and unacceptable for me.
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Old 01-10-2013, 08:09 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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I love good food. And I love it that my wife cooks the food I love.
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Old 01-10-2013, 10:20 AM
 
Location: apparently NeverLand
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I am the major breadwinner (I work full time in the coporate world, my fiance is a bartender/Musician ) so my fiance stays home and cooks/cleans. He will be the stay at home dad when we decide to have children. It's not that I can't cook, I just don't have time. This works well for our family.
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