Would she lie about being pregnant? (after one night stand) (college, percentage)
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getting to the bottom of the whole thing sounds like admittance of paternity, or it may be perceived that way.
no doctors report. they give u pictures when they give u an ultrasound. the picture would have her name the date and the medical place's name. almost every expectant mom gets one of those from the doctor.
shes sounds like shes giving you the guilt trip by telling you that she doesnt want any help or want u in the babys life or any other kind of involvemnt. why would she tell u that but then tell u that she is pregnant? or ask u to hang out? or says these crazy tings thinking that yuour gonna believe her.
it sounds like when she says something to you and doesnt hear what she wants to hear from u in return, she gets all defensive and starts spitting words outta her mouth. its like,she is behaving like this for a reaction...and she will say anything to get a reaction from you at this point since u refused to see her on a romantic level. dont sink any deeper into this.
shes playing headgames. and by u wanting to get to the bottom of it,, shes winning.
how old are u and how old is she.. let me guess... ure younger and shes older?
She allegedly went to the Dr today and had an ultrasound and a blood test which confirmed that she is pregnant. This is fishy to me because it has only been 3 weeks and I'm fairly sure that ultrasounds (even vaginal ultrasounds) will not produce any positive results until like week 4, 5 or 6. Can anyone comment on that?
I have asked her about her plans and she says that she want to have a child. I'm not sure how to go about encouraging her to have an abortion if in fact she is pregnant. Part of me thinks it's not my body so I have no part in the decision. But another side of me says I should push her to have one given the circumstance.
Any thoughts on any of this? Thanks.
If you are supposedly the father, you should have gone with her to the ultrasound. I'm pregnant and had my first ultrasound around 8 weeks. They were able to tell how many weeks the baby was measuring. According to my last period, I was 8 weeks 5 days, and the ultrasound tech said that the baby was measuring 9 weeks 1 day (in other words really close). They count weeks starting at the date of the woman's last period. My last period started Sept 26th, and that's when the weeks started even though conception didn't happen until about 2 weeks later.
If her period was due 1/22, that means her last period was December 25th (assuming a 28 day cycle). So right now she is actually 5 weeks and a few days. If she was really pregnant and has been to the doctor they would have told her how many weeks she is. The fact that she said she was 3 weeks and had an ultrasound sounds fishy. You should have asked for pictures...they always give pictures after an ultrasound. Edit...I see in a later post you asked for sonogram details and already know about the pregnancy dating. :-) oh well. I posted before reading the rest of the thread!
If you are supposedly the father, you should have gone with her to the ultrasound. I'm pregnant and had my first ultrasound around 8 weeks.
It's possible that there was no ultrasound, and that's why he wouldn't have known about it in order to attend. I still doubt they would have done one at this early stage, unless she has really high-end insurance in Mexico. They would've done a basic pregnancy test, then scheduled her for an ultrasound later. Just my 2 cents.
It's possible that there was no ultrasound, and that's why he wouldn't have known about it in order to attend. I still doubt they would have done one at this early stage, unless she has really high-end insurance in Mexico. They would've done a basic pregnancy test, then scheduled her for an ultrasound later. Just my 2 cents.
Healthcare is SUPER affordable in Mexico and abortions are free I think. Which is why I dont' think she is extorting money for an abortion. But also, considering this, it seems like Doctors wouldn't do a procedure unless it was necessary because it's just a very efficient system. So that supports the idea that a doc wouldn't do an ultrasound on a first visit, particularly if it was only one week after her first missed period. Dont you agree?
1) If you used a new condom each of the 3 times, and they didn't break, she's most likely NOT pregnant; if they didn't break, ain't nothin' getting through
2) She is probably a liar
3) A paternity test will prove that
I knew of a situation where a chick like this was also doing other guys on adjacent nights. It's hard to take them seriously, let alone believe something manipulative like this. Relax. The probability of nothing having resulted from it is the most likely outcome. Stay away from her.
1) If you used a new condom each of the 3 times, and they didn't break, she's most likely NOT pregnant; if they didn't break, ain't nothin' getting through
2) She is probably a liar
3) A paternity test will prove that
I knew of a situation where a chick like this was also doing other guys on adjacent nights. It's hard to take them seriously, let alone believe something manipulative like this. Relax. The probability of nothing having resulted from it is the most likely outcome. Stay away from her.
You are very approachable when you communicate (write) like this Robert and not like Christopher Hirata
But look here, Jill St. John, before your time, was known for an IQ of 162 and being admitted to UCLA ahead of schedule, which she declined, to be a movie star, and is best known for being a "Bond girl," opposite your country's Sean Connery. Like they say in America, "it takes someone smart to play dumb all the time."
This was obviously the first thought that came to mind when all this started (of $hit, now I have to leave Mexico). So I'm glad others agree that this would be a viable option and not be a complete deadbeat, piece of $hit thing to do. My conscious might have a difficult time with it because of the slight slight chance that this baby could be mine. But it might come to this. After all, she has told me that she doesn't want anything from me in terms of child support or even involvement in the potential child's life. So that would justify leaving if it comes to that. But then I have to live not knowing for sure if I have a kid running around there somewhere. It will be like Broken Flowers--I will receive a letter in 20 years saying hey, you have a son, and he's on his way to see you...
Don't play these games people are suggesting. No further contact with this woman. Don't call her, don't email or text her, don't meet her anywhere.
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