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My ex-wife texted me earlier today - she's 5 weeks pregnant! It's her new BF's, a younger guy (early 20s), who actually sounds like a great guy. I know he was working 2 jobs and trying to save for a house..I guess it's going towards the pregnancy now, baby and my ex-wife.
Move on my man, She created the situation and its her responsibility to live the life she made. You post about your mixed emotions shows you are intelligent and have a heart. But that heart deserves good things and an equal person to share it with in the future. The chapter on you and her is certainly closed now. Open up to a new one.
This gentleman who made this thread will make a good life for himself. Rest assured.
Don't be sad about missing out on a woman who gets impregnated by one guy while telling another he's her soulmate. Judging by your posts here on C-D, I'd say your ex-wife is certifiable, a real nutcase, and you are far better off without her or her obnoxious family in your life. If you're going to feel bad, feel bad for her next victim, that poor guy whom she claims to be the father, and the poor kid who is going to have her for a mother.
Don't be sad about missing out on a woman who gets impregnated by one guy while telling another he's her soulmate. Judging by your posts here on C-D, I'd say your ex-wife is certifiable, a real nutcase, and you are far better off without her or her obnoxious family in your life. If you're going to feel bad, feel bad for her next victim, that poor guy whom she claims to be the father, and the poor kid who is going to have her for a mother.
That was my exact thoughts too. I don't recall the OP's history with this woman, but it sounds like he should just move on.... not dwell on the what if's......
I hope that the mother isn't flaky, as I hate to see a child being brought up with a nutty parent.
Reconciliation between estranged spouses can be a beautiful thing, absent abuse, and when the spouses have turned away from the actions and attitudes that almost ruined the marriage. But your ex sounds as if she is trying to keep her options open, and/or is unstable, and she certainly isn't ready to forsake all others. I'm sorry, for you and for her child.
My ex-wife texted me earlier today - she's 5 weeks pregnant! It's her new BF's, a younger guy (early 20s), who actually sounds like a great guy. I know he was working 2 jobs and trying to save for a house..I guess it's going towards the pregnancy now, baby and my ex-wife.
The part I feel bad about, is just last week she was apologizing, asking for a second chance, saying we're soul mates and that what she did (cheat) is not who she is. I told her no.
Partly feeling sad, happy for her, and like I'm missing out on something...
Anyway, just an update..
The first thing that comes to mind is it was probably good you didn't get back with her last week because you'd now be dealing with this pregnancy and her boyfriend. I understand that you feel like you are missing out on something, but what I think you would mostly be missing out of is a LOT of dramam if you had gotten back with her.
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