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Old 05-29-2013, 05:31 PM
 
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I mean they look me.up and down like eye candy. This is probably the last time in my life that dudes are.really going to be checking me out so hard, so perhaps I should find a rich one to marry. A lot of rich famous.guys in their 60s marry women who are my age, probably because that's as young as you can go without facing ridicule. (Speaking of which, Rick Springfield, my teen idol, checked me out 2 years ago.) Mel Gibson is an example.

So how do I meet one with money? Why not give it a.shot? So where.might I find a rich 60 year old? Not even wealthy, I will settle for well off.
go to the golf courses /country clubs....and play golf-if you dont know how to play--learn,,,golf courses are where wealthy men congregate, and there's little competition.

 
Old 05-29-2013, 05:37 PM
 
Location: NYC
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post a pic, so I can see if you even have a chance at a gold medal, onglet. ?
I have posted pics before. I am as about as good as one can expect.for my age (especially body wise) but certainoy don't look 10+ years younger.than my age.as.most.people claim.
 
Old 05-29-2013, 05:37 PM
 
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I mean they look me.up and down like eye candy. This is probably the last time in my life that dudes are.really going to be checking me out so hard, so perhaps I should find a rich one to marry. A lot of rich famous.guys in their 60s marry women who are my age, probably because that's as young as you can go without facing ridicule. (Speaking of which, Rick Springfield, my teen idol, checked me out 2 years ago.) Mel Gibson is an example.

So how do I meet one with money? Why not give it a.shot? So where.might I find a rich 60 year old? Not even wealthy, I will settle for well off.

Makes me recall something I read long ago regarding this very desire on part of young lazy women to find a sugar daddy type. I'm paraphrasing: go to Vegas at top hotels hang out by the swimming pools and 'dress' to show your 'baby maker'. The trophy hunting types will find you.

Don't know how accurate it is, but if your next trade show takes you to Vegas you could give it a try.
 
Old 05-29-2013, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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I see nothing wrong with your idea. The man is not going to be fooled. He will be using you as much as you are using him. I think it can be a win/win situation. He will have to at least LIKE you for this to happen.

I know you aren't talking marriage but I know 2 women that married old men. They had a deal. Take care of me until I die and you get everything. 1 man lived a lot longer than she thought he would. I might consider finding a younger woman and working out a deal like that some day.

I think your wrong about how people think about the big 40 or 50 year age differences. Most people realize that they are both getting what they want. No one thinks the man believes that the 22 year old really loves him.
 
Old 05-29-2013, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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In my 20s I believed that it was crass.to think about how much money a.guy makes, and.that the.right thing to do was.to get an education and make my.own money. I simply didn't consider a mans potential when dating and that was a mistake. It isn't even solely about money, its about seeking out men with personal drive alwho believe.in themselves and the.ability.to make things.happen. perhaps I would.not have.married a rich man, but.certainly a.man who was.going.places.
I didn't look for a guy with money, but I did make sure he had some drive to do something with his life. I had no intentions at 18 of supporting my husband financially for the rest of my life. I met kids at school whose Dad's came home from work, sat down in front of the tv with a beer and watched sports for the rest of the night while their Mom got home from work and raced to get the dinner made, clean up, sort out homework that she couldn't help with because she was at work, get kids to bed, make lunches for tomorrow, plan tomorrow's meal etc.... that . No, I was sure from day one that I wouldn't end up with a man like that. Money's a bonus, but lazy wasn't open for consideration. And unstable employment was an absolute no.
 
Old 05-29-2013, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I have posted pics before. I am as about as good as one can expect.for my age (especially body wise) but certainoy don't look 10+ years younger.than my age.as.most.people claim.
sorry, but Im new to this forum (obviously) can someone please direct me to your photo? and also, how old are you, ongletNYC?
 
Old 05-29-2013, 05:55 PM
 
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You're vastly underestimating the influence socio-economic background and education have on eventual income levels. Even Warren Buffet admitted that had he been born in a banana republic with all of his genetics and work ethics at the same level he would never have amounted to much.
Your 100% right and I agree the thing is that it doesn't matter exactly HOW you get rich as long as your rich. All the guys who 14bricks posted all acquired their wealth in different ways but the result was still the same
 
Old 05-29-2013, 06:05 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Makes me recall something I read long ago regarding this very desire on part of young lazy women to find a sugar daddy type. I'm paraphrasing: go to Vegas at top hotels hang out by the swimming pools and 'dress' to show your 'baby maker'. The trophy hunting types will find you.

Don't know how accurate it is, but if your next trade show takes you to Vegas you could give it a try.
Would not work for me. Guys in Vegas.are.working.to get.laid.
 
Old 05-29-2013, 06:11 PM
 
Location: NYC
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You're vastly underestimating the influence socio-economic background and education have on eventual income levels. Even Warren Buffet admitted that had he been born in a banana republic with all of his genetics and work ethics at the same level he would never have amounted to much.
. I would.never.meet.a.man.born in a.banana field.so.its an.irrelevant.argument (though true) my post.was.about.guys who think they are.so much smarter.than men who use their money.to get.what they want banana republic guy isn't.a part.of the.equation as I would never.even meet.him.
 
Old 05-29-2013, 06:12 PM
 
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I mean they look me.up and down like eye candy. This is probably the last time in my life that dudes are.really going to be checking me out so hard, so perhaps I should find a rich one to marry. A lot orich famous.guys in their 60s marry women who are my age, probably because that's as young as you can go without facing ridicule. (Speaking of which, Rick Springfield, my teen idol, checked me out 2 years ago.) Mel Gibson is an example.

So how do I meet one with money? Why not give it a.shot? So where.might I find a rich 60 year old? Not even wealthy, I will settle for well off.
What I gather from your posts is that you have a career, make good money, and you're fit and in shape because you take care of yourself. If you have this going for you then why not? You already have your own money. If you meet a 60+ year old man that makes more money than you do, it can take you to the next level and you both can pool your assets together to be able to live a lavish lifestyle. This is not a small feat in NYC. Why not date a man for love AND for money. If the men in this age bracket seem to appreciate you more, then go for it. You only have one live to live, so live it.

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