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Just kidding. I have thought about doing this,but I want to find my equal in income vs a rich 60 year old. I'm 31,and it seems the 60 year olds don't look my way. They seem to want the 40 year old women.
Now if I could figure out how to stop 18 year old men from trying to get with me...
I suspect 40 is the.cut.off to be able to have a public relationship without ridicule. That's a guess though.
If a gal in her early 20s asked.me.for relationship advice, I would advise.her.to get.with the most fincially.promising.man she can.If.I.could turn back the.clock I would do it myself, but my mom didn't.give me the straight dope as.was.typical.for women of her generation. Instead I did as.she.suggested, got a career which is actually a.very good.one, and married a man who didn't have.his act.together. Mid career I make good money but I am.bored.to tears... maybe I can pull it.off now, but would have.to.for much older. I am looking for advice on how.to get my game.up. as I said I don't.need.super.wealthy, really just well off enough to be.very.comfortable, nice vacations, nice.house/condo etc. Frankly I.don't think it is.gold.digging at.all, its actually an exchange.of assets.
So I did not read far enough. Sorry. So would you say you want to merge financial resources? Would you say that you are looking for companionship, affection and social acceptance? I don't remember how old you said you are, but it sounds like in the early 30s time frame. Across much of history, what I describe is what marriage has been. This love thing is a new idea born of the massive wealth of the west. There is no reason at all this kind of arrangement cannot be achieved. It sounds more up your alley than the prostitution style stuff a couple of other people alluded to.
If this is the deal, I would think you want to play classy. If you want a marriage, then you are more than bimbo material.
Not true.
Aren't you the one ALWAYS blasting overweight women?
Now that I think about it....why would a rich man want a 40 year old women when he can get a 20 year old?
That's not clothing. Yes I do judge overweight people (not just women) because the vast.majority of the.time they have.no discipline. People who don't care about the way they dress.are OK to me, but people who don't care about their.bodies aren't of any interest whatsoever. I am slightly repulsed when people get.too big.
You want this back on topic. So I will ask again. What do you want from this supposed "relationship"? What is it you feel you have not gotten that you are going to get from gold digging. It cannot be money as you have said yourself that you are well heeled.
I am not well heeled. This is NYC where you need.to be.bringing down $500k to be well heeled. My thought process is that so Kong as there is a group of men aggressively pursuing me, why not leverage my assets and be outright hypergamous?
I am not well heeled. This is NYC where you need.to be.bringing down $500k to be well heeled. My thought process is that so Kong as there is a group of men aggressively pursuing me, why not leverage my assets and be outright hypergamous?
Neato. I learned a new word. I guess it is as good a thing as any to do. I would kind of wonder why go for money rather than love. But that is me. I get it. But I would fear cold, empty regret.
Take up golf and join a Country Club. Almost all men. Most of them would love to find a woman who would enjoy golf with them rather than complaining about how much time they spend on the golf course.
Who are you worried about being ridiculed? And who do you fear will do the ridiculing?
No I am guessing the man will be ridiculed. Read the thread, everyone laughs and.judges a 60 year old with a 20 year old.men do the.pursuing, so I am guessing why an older.man wouldn't.just buy a 20 something.
I suspect 40 is the.cut.off to be able to have a public relationship without ridicule. That's a guess though.
Makes sense. From a 60 year olds perspective you are probably as beautiful and forever young as Angelie Jolie or fill in the blank with another beautiful woman.
The main people bashing those with money or even those who are just well off are poor blokes or even women and those who are stuck with them. "Money doesn't buy you happiness" almost always comes from the lips of people who have none. Ive been there broke and without money and I sure as hell am not going back
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