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Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I do have a few dresses in my closet. So I do wear them if I have to. I also have a couple of dates planned within the next week, so I know that I have to wear more appropriate clothing. I have trouble walking, so heels are extremely uncomfortable. That kinda limits my wardrobe as well. I just feel like if I were to dress up all of the time, then I'd be portraying someone who I'm not. I come from a rather middle class background, so I'm not poor by any means, I'd prefer to spend money on other things.
Nothing at all wrong with that. Lots of men, I think most, don't care about heels. Yeah, they're cool when a person walks in them well, but it is far more of a downside if they wear them and can't walk in them.
You said trouble walking. As in general? Foot issues? Just wondering as how a person moves has lots to do with attraction to me.
Nothing at all wrong with that. Lots of men, I think most, don't care about heels. Yeah, they're cool when a person walks in them well, but it is far more of a downside if they wear them and can't walk in them.
You said trouble walking. As in general? Foot issues? Just wondering as how a person moves has lots to do with attraction to me.
Unfortunately,I'm disabled, so that's probably a huge strike against me. But not ugly by any means probably about a 6-8/10 depending on the day
Just curious. I've always been a t shirt and jeans kinda girl, even though I'm almost 30. I recently had a guy tell me that he wasn't too interested in me because of the way I dress. I wasn't offended since he wasn't my type, but I'm a plain jane. But I'm just curious as to what guys like.
No worrys. That look on a woman can be totally awesome.
But you have to know what flatters your figure.
If you are rocking out baggy t-shirts like its 1993, it might be a fail.
But if you wear a fitted t-shirt and it looks appropriate, it looks great.
and personally, I like to see a woman rock that outfit, to me it shows they can be comfortable NOT all dolled up. Confidence is key
The doctor told me my testosterone levels are through the roof and spike the chart.
Guess where all that body hair comes from I guess?!
Don't know for sure.
I'm never picky about clothes on a woman.
Wear whatever you want as long as I can "see" you and your shape.
I have yet to figure out why women hide their curves.
Listen to too many gay fashion managers I guess.
You make a very good poing point here. Many of my male friends dont understand why some women choose to wear clothes that are way too big and bulky on them.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Unfortunately,I'm disabled, so that's probably a huge strike against me. But not ugly by any means probably about a 6-8/10 depending on the day
That is going to limit the pool, sure. For better or worse. For me, I want a lady friend I can hike, run, play tennis with, etc. So those things might be limited. But undoubtedly you're a good catch for someone.
That is going to limit the pool, sure. For better or worse. For me, I want a lady friend I can hike, run, play tennis with, etc. So those things might be limited. But undoubtedly you're a good catch for someone.
I can do those things, just not as well as an abled body person. Most people don't even know that I am disabled unless I tell them. I just walk differently. I think most guys are writing me off with preconceived notions about disabled people. That's another topic, but I just want to clear the air.
You make a very good poing point here. Many of my male friends dont understand why some women choose to wear clothes that are way too big and bulky on them.
Because women aren't here for the sole purpose of looking attractive to others? Maybe those women keep getting harassed and cat called by men while going to work or running errands and they hope by covering up their shape a bit they won't be harassed as often.
I actually have a few girlfriends who purposely wear big bulky sweatshirts and whatnot because they were sick of the harassment and didn't like feeling fearful.
Because women aren't here for the sole purpose of looking attractive to others? Maybe those women keep getting harassed and cat called by men while going to work or running errands and they hope by covering up their shape a bit they won't be harassed as often.
I actually have a few girlfriends who purposely wear big bulky sweatshirts and whatnot because they were sick of the harassment and didn't like feeling fearful.
You aren't looking that way for other men. This thread and OP means your boyfriend.
Most secure boyfriends and husbands get off when guys check our woman out.
Some guys even give you a thumbs up or something to show their approval.
FWIW....I can only think of ONE use for a baggy/saggy shirt.....
You won't be "fearful" at all while wearing it and what's under it.
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