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I think the truth is that you wanted to fool around. The lies your "friend" told, gave you a reason to overreact and take a break from your BF. If you're in a relationship with someone, the typical position is to believe them unless you have overwhelming evidence to the contrary.
You wanted your friends story to be true so you could smash another guy.
I thought for a long time about this and I decided "not to tell" my boyfriend for a bunch or reasons.
First of all, like Momentus said, we actually were on a break and I was single during that time and a single woman (or man) is allowed to do as she wants. How do I know for sure the HE didn't go and have sex?
Second, contrary to what some people here said, I did not go on a break so I could go and sleep with some other guy. I wasn't looking fo it. It just happened that night - I was with some friends and the guy and I just started talking.
Third, I think that by telling my boyfriend, it would do more harm than good. He really is the one for me and I don't want to hurt him. So I think letting sleeping dogs lie is the best way to go.
Finally, the other guy really meant nothing. I got caught up in the moment and things happened that I regret. As a matter of fact, the other guy actually texted me yesterday to see if I wanted to get together. I answered no and told him not to text me again.
My boyfriend has not really been himself these past couple of days and asked all sorts of questions but I am focusing on making him feel good and have apologized over and over abou tnot believing him when this all started. And yes, I was stupid to believe my ex girlfriend's comments over my boyfriend's.
You know why? Cause he can see it all over your face.
My boyfriend has not really been himself these past couple of days and asked all sorts of questions but I am focusing on making him feel good and have apologized over and over about not believing him when this all started. And yes, I was stupid to believe my ex girlfriend's comments over my boyfriend's.
Why did you bother posting this message if you already made your decision regarding whether or not you would tell your boyfriend about the fact that you had sex with a stranger while "on a break" from your relationship with him?
In my opinion it's suited to keep quiet as you two weren't together when it happened so your sexual activities are none of his business outside of being STD/STI free. So get a STD/STI test and once you're in the clear keep your lips zipped on this matter.
Disgusting...is all I can say...I am sure he will dump you soon enough.
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