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I thought for a long time about this and I decided "not to tell" my boyfriend for a bunch or reasons.
First of all, like Momentus said, we actually were on a break and I was single during that time and a single woman (or man) is allowed to do as she wants. How do I know for sure the HE didn't go and have sex?
Second, contrary to what some people here said, I did not go on a break so I could go and sleep with some other guy. I wasn't looking fo it. It just happened that night - I was with some friends and the guy and I just started talking.
Third, I think that by telling my boyfriend, it would do more harm than good. He really is the one for me and I don't want to hurt him. So I think letting sleeping dogs lie is the best way to go.
Finally, the other guy really meant nothing. I got caught up in the moment and things happened that I regret. As a matter of fact, the other guy actually texted me yesterday to see if I wanted to get together. I answered no and told him not to text me again.
My boyfriend has not really been himself these past couple of days and asked all sorts of questions but I am focusing on making him feel good and have apologized over and over abou tnot believing him when this all started. And yes, I was stupid to believe my ex girlfriend's comments over my boyfriend's.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. It sure sounds like you're just using this poor guy, hoping something more exciting comes along and doesn't ditch you after just two romps in the sack like this last guy did.
If you care anything at all about the "bf", you'd cut him loose so he could find someone who actually could love him.
You know why? Cause he can see it all over your face.
Absolutely, he's playing it cool until he can get the truth out of one of her friends and if he knows how to play it right, he can get her friend to admit it without even thinking that she's giving him new information. He trusted her up until the point when she took her friends word over his, guys never forget that and he's probably just waiting until he can get out. I wouldn't be surprised if he soon started another relationship and just dumps her.
I thought for a long time about this and I decided "not to tell" my boyfriend for a bunch or reasons.
First of all, like Momentus said, we actually were on a break and I was single during that time and a single woman (or man) is allowed to do as she wants. How do I know for sure the HE didn't go and have sex?
Second, contrary to what some people here said, I did not go on a break so I could go and sleep with some other guy. I wasn't looking fo it. It just happened that night - I was with some friends and the guy and I just started talking.
Third, I think that by telling my boyfriend, it would do more harm than good. He really is the one for me and I don't want to hurt him. So I think letting sleeping dogs lie is the best way to go.
Finally, the other guy really meant nothing. I got caught up in the moment and things happened that I regret. As a matter of fact, the other guy actually texted me yesterday to see if I wanted to get together. I answered no and told him not to text me again.
My boyfriend has not really been himself these past couple of days and asked all sorts of questions but I am focusing on making him feel good and have apologized over and over abou tnot believing him when this all started. And yes, I was stupid to believe my ex girlfriend's comments over my boyfriend's.
------"How do I know for sure HE didn't go out and have sex ?"
Oldest trick in the book !
Justify your actions by insinuating HE is just as guilty.
OK I get it and I know that I messed up big time. He's been such a wonderful boyfriend that I don't want to lose him over something (incredibly) stupid that I did and that really meant nothing. I don't want to hurt him and I don't want us to break up!
Too late.
These thoughts should have entered your head BEFORE sleeping with another guy.
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