How do you flirt without coming off creepy? (women, college, sexy)

[JBT1980]

I have trouble flirting in fear of it coming out wrong or creepy since I not the smoothest person taking to women..

How do you flirt and take it to the next level without it coming off distespectful or creepy?

[The Illusive Man]

It takes time. I wasn't always good at it. Shoot, sometimes I use to be downright cringeworthy when flirting. It takes practice. Instead of trying to hard I just started making small conversations with women. Whether in the elevator or aisle at a store. Just small talk and just taking mental notes in regards to her body language. Just keep building your confidence little by little and eventually you'll get better at it. The key is to be completely comfortable with rejection because it will happen often at first.

[Mr_Polymath]

Rules 1. and 2.

[Raena77]

Let's pretend your the girl and I'm the guy.

"Hey how is your day?"smile
"That's a pretty color you are wearing goes good with your eyes."
After compliment go right into next sentence.
"So what's with this weather really windy and cold all of a sudden.Do you know what the weather is tomorrow? I really hope it's nice this weekend because I'm going to a college football game."
Get the back and forth going and make people feel comfortable and listen to their feedback.
Look at where they stand and how far. Some blush,some studder,some hold eye contact or look away,laugh way too much,

[Cardiff Giant]

"I would start at your toes."

lol too much?

[JerZ]

How about humor?

Humor/bantering is very sexy.

Don't put on a clown hat or juggle bowling pins or anything, just say something funny and appropriate to the situation (IOW, don't literally stand there and tell a random joke..."Did you hear the one about the priest, the rabbi and the coke addict...?").

[Milehighrockies]

Humor

lite teasing, nothing sexual though.

Prefer something that fit your environment.

[stan4]

It's kind of a lose-lose, though, op...because flirting only really works for anyone IF the other person wanted that person to flirt with them.

Get my meaning?

Or do you just mean, "How do I approach a girl and initiate conversation?"

[Frihed89]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

How do you flirt and take it to the next level without it coming off distespectful or creepy?

You start a friendly, relaxed conversation and see where it goes.

[hawaiiancoconut]

This is going to sound cliché, but just be yourself. Because no matter how smooth of a talker you are, you're going to come off creepy with some women.

Just flirt anyway and take your chances.