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zentropa · 10-30-2016, 04:29 PM

And WE WOMEN (and a lot of man) are telling you it's NOT. It's disrespectful and arrogant.

Your own common sense should tell you that too.

In case you wonder why men as a gender are getting such a bad rap now...it's attitudes like yours. Have a little decency.

ItsRick24 · 10-30-2016, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by MogwaiLover217

Dating coaches, pickup artists, that's what they preach, they mention it's important to tease women

Do NOT tease her. You can make light conversation, keep humorous banter but if you tease her, she could very well call you a ******* and a creep! Amongst other things.

SeasonedNewbie · 10-30-2016, 08:10 PM

Be yourself and let the conversation between you two flow naturally.

BCCan · 10-30-2016, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ItsRick24

Do NOT tease her. You can make light conversation, keep humorous banter but if you tease her, she could very well call you a ******* and a creep! Amongst other things.

Yes, please don't tease women we will not respond positively to it.

JerZ · 10-30-2016, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by MogwaiLover217

Dating coaches, pickup artists, that's what they preach, they mention it's important to tease women

I doubt it. They are saying you should be playful, not neg them.

The whole negging thing makes any even marginally self-confident woman puke. And run. Obviously, you have noticed this. They're running. You are doing it wrong!

MogwaiLover217 · 10-31-2016, 06:39 PM

And men are supposed to feel lucky and embrace how they don't have a biological clock, yeah well I resent it

zentropa · 10-31-2016, 09:05 PM

What ^^ ??

RbccL · 10-31-2016, 09:31 PM

Try some negging: I like your hair, but I think you're a piece of crap.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gui6fOa01G4

Kingbarkus · 11-01-2016, 10:48 AM

Be self-deprecating and mix in humor. If you can get a woman to giggle, she will remember you. I receive allergy shots twice a week at the ENT's office. I get the cute physician assistants to laugh with humor. Be yourself and you will give off an air of confidence.

MogwaiLover217 · 11-01-2016, 07:19 PM

Tripp Advice goes over it specifically in some videos of his on his YouTube channel, on teasing