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I actually agree with him. If a man is nice to a woman and unthreatening towards her and she wants to be rude then she's not worth it. Men and women get once chance to make a good first impression and isn't wise to be a douche to someone who is nice. And before the ladies here attack me with pitchforks being nice doesn't mean sleep with him if you don't want to. Anyone who is rude to someone when they nice and gave them a compliment doesn't deserve one.
I don't have a problem with that. I do have a problem with his definitions of "respectful" and "disrespectful".
I don't have a problem with that. I do have a problem with his definitions of "respectful" and "disrespectful".
If he's an ass about it or making lewd comments towards then by all means have at him. To me, dating would be more enjoyable if people were more civil to one another.
It takes time. I wasn't always good at it. Shoot, sometimes I use to be downright cringeworthy when flirting. It takes practice. Instead of trying to hard I just started making small conversations with women. Whether in the elevator or aisle at a store. Just small talk and just taking mental notes in regards to her body language. Just keep building your confidence little by little and eventually you'll get better at it. The key is to be completely comfortable with rejection because it will happen often at first.
This.
Exactly this.
I was hopeless in my early years (although I did win a few hearts - but only a few). I worked on it and finally discovered where my 'charm' points lay and worked on developing those. I'm quite good at it now.
Re-read the above quote and take careful note. Been there, done that. It works. But it was a hell of a lot of work. Or at least it was for me.
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NO! not even if you're well-endowed!!!!!
Eh, it works for some of them with some people. Some women I know ask me "why do guys do this?", I shrug and tell them to send them a dick pic back. Other women I've met have gotten good ones and made dates off of them (though they say very few are good ones). So it works for someone.
Eh, it works for some of them with some people. Some women I know ask me "why do guys do this?", I shrug and tell them to send them a dick pic back. Other women I've met have gotten good ones and made dates off of them (though they say very few are good ones). So it works for someone.
It doesn't play to my strength.
Yeah I know one bloke in particular that does it ( it's definitely his strength ) online and has had quite a few birds out of it...... His attitude is " what's the worst that can happen?... block me and that's it "
It's not me both d pics and that outlook as well mate ( not my strength either lol ).
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