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Old 11-05-2016, 08:50 PM
 
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Men putting women down is not "playful." Jesus.

Playful Teasing has nothing to do with putting someone down.

Being dramatic and pretending to not know the difference is kinda weird, but whatever works for ya. I'll stick with playful teasing.
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Old 11-06-2016, 08:54 AM
 
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Playful teasing between children or adults who know each other well is ok.

Playful teasing as a tactic to manipulate women into responding to a stranger is wrong wrong wrong.

I am surprised YOU can't see the difference.
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:32 PM
 
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Ya whatever, gotta have discipline
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Old 12-20-2016, 07:50 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I don't flirt with women I don't know very well.
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Old 12-20-2016, 03:21 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I have trouble flirting in fear of it coming out wrong or creepy since I not the smoothest person taking to women..

How do you flirt and take it to the next level without it coming off distespectful or creepy?
Match her level of flirting and you won't come across as too forward or even creepy.

On first contact ( first time I meet one ) I'm engaging and polite but I'll see how she responds/behaves and let that dictate how forward I am with flirting.

If you're uncomfortable in jumping straight into flirting just by talking normally and ensuring there's a good vibe will build you up and go from there.

End of the day flirting comes from confidence and is natural, the more you squabble and worry about it the more harder it WILL be and more chance you'll come across as awkward
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Old 12-20-2016, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Don't stare.
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Old 12-20-2016, 05:58 PM
 
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Match her level of flirting and you won't come across as too forward or even creepy.

On first contact ( first time I meet one ) I'm engaging and polite but I'll see how she responds/behaves and let that dictate how forward I am with flirting.

If you're uncomfortable in jumping straight into flirting just by talking normally and ensuring there's a good vibe will build you up and go from there.

End of the day flirting comes from confidence and is natural, the more you squabble and worry about it the more harder it WILL be and more chance you'll come across as awkward

Women never initiate flirting with me so to match her level of flirting would be no flirting at all lol
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Old 12-20-2016, 06:00 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Women never initiate flirting with me so to match her level of flirting would be no flirting at all lol
Ok match her humour, enthusiasm etc etc and then you'll work your way up to the charming/flirting
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Old 12-20-2016, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Youngstown, Oh.
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Ok match her humour, enthusiasm etc etc and then you'll work your way up to the charming/flirting
This is why I don't talk to people. I'm just matching their enthusiasm.
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Old 12-20-2016, 06:41 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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This is why I don't talk to people. I'm just matching their enthusiasm.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Good one mate
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