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Old 12-20-2016, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Not everyone is blessed with good looks. I posted a pic of myself and I took it down quickly because I didn't want to be made fun of for not being that physically attractive. That's why some men struggle in my opinion.
Yeah. Had a pic of myself up too. But I took mine down as well.

1. Fear of ridicule.
2. Just a bit too personable for online.

I have had #1 happen before. Not on this site however And it was a few years back. So I am aware I don't look that great. lol

So I avoid posting pix. Unless I am showing off an outfit and my face is nowhere near viable, or perhaps if I am wearing shades, a pic may not be so bad.

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Old 12-20-2016, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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Can't believe this thread is still going strong.

I think people ultimately do what works for them. If a woman is being approached regularly, then she doesn't need to do anything further, why would she? If she isn't being approached, then she needs to change her strategy.

Ditto for men. Regarding those who do nothing but complain about the hand they've been dealt in the dating lottery; they complain for the attention it brings them. Every parent knows that children will seek attention, even negative attention, because it is better than no attention at all.
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Old 12-20-2016, 09:16 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Yeah. Had a pic of myself up too. But I took mine down as well.

1. Fear of ridicule.
2. Just a bit too personable for online.

I have had #1 happen before. Not on this site however And it was a few years back. So I am aware I don't look that great. lol

So I avoid posting pix. Unless I am showing off an outfit and my face is nowhere near viable, or perhaps if I am wearing shades, a pic may not be so bad.
What on this thread?

Either way I'm sorry to hear that you've had that happen my love and FWIW I think as a person judging by your posts you're terrific
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Old 12-20-2016, 09:23 PM
 
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What on this thread?

Either way I'm sorry to hear that you've had that happen my love and FWIW I think as a person judging by your posts you're terrific
No. lol No pix posted on this thread. I had a profile pic posted at one point. Switched back and forth between 2 different ones. But took them down, and replaced it with random art I did. lol

And thank you. Nice of you to say.
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Old 12-20-2016, 09:25 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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No. lol No pix posted on this thread. I had a profile pic posted at one point. Switched back and forth between 2 different ones. But took them down, and replaced it with random art I did. lol

And thank you. Nice of you to say.
You're most welcome
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Old 12-20-2016, 09:50 PM
 
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Not everyone is blessed with good looks. I posted a pic of myself and I took it down quickly because I didn't want to be made fun of for not being that physically attractive. That's why some men struggle in my opinion.
I posted a pic of myself here once..it was a mistake..nobody responded which told me all I needed to know lol..I did get one pity compliment after a few hours that was about it..
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Old 12-20-2016, 09:56 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I posted a pic of myself here once..it was a mistake..nobody responded which told me all I needed to know lol..I did get one pity compliment after a few hours that was about it..
Where was it posted?
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Old 12-20-2016, 10:07 PM
 
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Where was it posted?

In one of the threads on this forum..had the mods take it down. My ego was bruised enough already lol
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Old 12-20-2016, 10:11 PM
 
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Yeah. Had a pic of myself up too. But I took mine down as well.

1. Fear of ridicule.
2. Just a bit too personable for online.

I have had #1 happen before. Not on this site however And it was a few years back. So I am aware I don't look that great. lol

So I avoid posting pix. Unless I am showing off an outfit and my face is nowhere near viable, or perhaps if I am wearing shades, a pic may not be so bad.
I don't have my picture up anywhere for some of the same reasons. More so, I don't want my face to be associated with neurosis.

Oh and don't worry about what people online say. Y
They do that to everyone. It does not mean as much as you think. Some people are just mean spirited. Even my favorite girl Salma Hayek gets some ridicule too.
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Old 12-20-2016, 10:14 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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In one of the threads on this forum..had the mods take it down. My ego was bruised enough already lol
Was you asking for comments or fishing? ( not sure of the nature of the thread )
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