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I wonder about the "left the country" thing too...
So was he already planning to leave the country? Were you hoping to stop him? Is he from another country? Is he traveling on business and expecting to return?
You give the impression that him leaving the country was his reaction to the news and the fight and he is running away from your relationship. But you really are not communicating very clearly about this, OP.
I get the impression that you are confusing because you are confused.
I'm 22 years old and he's 26. We've been together for 4 years and I know he's my soul mate & best friend but I'm so nervous about telling him. We weren't planning on having a baby and I don't even know how it happened. I think I may have forgotten to take my birth control pill one time because I don't see how else it could have happened.
I'm freaking out because I don't know how he's going to react. I'll be honest and admit that kids and babies aren't my forte but I really don't want to have an abortion.
I already feel connected to my baby and I've only known about the pregnancy for 3 months. I'm still not showing so he doesn't suspect anything but every time I decide to tell him I just chicken out.
I feel like the more I put it off, the more hurt he'll be that I didn't tell him sooner. What's the best approach to take when telling him I'm pregnant?
youve been with him all this time and you think your three months pregnant and he hasnt noticed any change...in your body functions.... sounds very strange to me...
Are you saying, your boyfriend, the man that got you preggers , is /has left the country?
Leave the country, as in goodbye? What a wuss! Unless you are pulling our legs. To run away like a friggen' baby, because of a baby? people still do that crap?
Unfortunately most of celebrities in my country do that. It usually is the female celeb that leaves the country to give birth usually here in the US. I don't know why. But I have known of 2 or more male celebs that left the country coz they got the girl pregnant who are also celebs. And give Mod cut. excuses. Only to go back again and I honestly don't why they do that, ugh.
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He hasn't always thought that I'm a liar. But on this occasion he says that I must be lying because of the way that the pills are packaged.
Does he understand the part about the packaging of placebos included, just to keep you in the habit of taking a pill everyday? It doesn't sound like either of you even know if you missed the pill or the placebo. In fact, some were recalled last month because the placebo were placed in the wrong spots and women took them anyway.
1. So, you're having and keeping the baby?
2. How far along are you, just bc you've known for 3 months doesn't explain how many months pregnant you are you know...
It seems like these 2 questions get repeatedly asked with no answer.
Update : He's left. I called him and tried to get him to reconsider but he keeps mentioning the packaging of the pills and how it's impossible that I could have forgotten without knowing soon enough. What do I say to him?
Why is he concentrating on the packaging? What difference does it make at this point. Does he want to be with you? Does he want to be a father? What country is he at now?
The absolute refusal on the part of the OP to answer basic healthcare questions that have repeatedly been posed by a number of posters, in favor of focusing exclusively on a sole (basically inconsequential) detail makes me fairly sure this is a post made purely for entertainment.
I think the best way to break it to him is by going on Jerry Springer.
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