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How much has he offered to send you so you can go flying into his 'made up rich arms"?
Even bad landlords usually get cash up front for the first months rent and security.
He hasn't bought me anything over the internet yet. He refuses to give me anything until I meet up with him in person. He said he's fine with buying me nice things and giving me money, but only in person because he doesn't want to get scammed. Is that a red flag?
He hasn't bought me anything over the internet yet. He refuses to give me anything until I meet up with him in person. He said he's fine with buying me nice things and giving me money, but only in person because he doesn't want to get scammed. Is that a red flag?
Sorry OP, this is one of the dumbest stories I have ever read on this forum.
I can't believe you have talked to him for a year and would even consider this. It feels fake to me.
He hasn't bought me anything over the internet yet. He refuses to give me anything until I meet up with him in person. He said he's fine with buying me nice things and giving me money, but only in person because he doesn't want to get scammed. Is that a red flag?
No, not at all. Perfectly legit.
What fancy restaurant will you go to? Olive Garden?
As long as you don't mind prostituting yourself, why not just spend your spare time doing so right where you live?
Much better outlook, shorter hours, more independence and it'll be your own money.
What fancy restaurant will you go to? Olive Garden?
I don't remember all the foods but they were expensive. I remember because he took pictures and the receipt was hundreds of dollars. I know he's legitimately rich (his parents are).
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
Sorry OP, this is one of the dumbest stories I have ever read on this forum.
I can't believe you have talked to him for a year and would even consider this. It feels fake to me.
A lot of things happened within that year so we don't trust each other. There was a time last year when I had the chance to meet him at a luxury hotel but didn't take it because I was unsure and honestly not that desperate to date a guy I wasn't really into. However at this moment he's persistent, and I'm more desperate than ever.
Lol
Bang bang shrimp??!
And brunch with Rooty Tooty Fresh and Fruity!!
I believe he is proposing some bacon and eggs between the legs.
Guess if I've ever been poor and desperate for money, and I have, I just had to work a second job for awhile until I found one that paid better. If that makes people look down on you OP, or disrespect you, as you said, it's certainly better than selling your soul.
He hasn't bought me anything over the internet yet. He refuses to give me anything until I meet up with him in person. He said he's fine with buying me nice things and giving me money, but only in person because he doesn't want to get scammed. Is that a red flag?
Sounds like he wants something for nothing. Probably watched one too many pretend to scam a girl out of her money for sex porns (not even realizing it's just fake) from his daddy's basement.
Also assuming he's not a bad guy another reason he might be nice one minute and cruel the next is he could be bi-polar and self medicating.
Yeah, I'd definitely set your terms up front (like he covers ticket cost, an upfront sum, and maybe even take a friend with you for safety reasons on the first meet (which he should also cover). And nothing doing until he comes through. Or if he doesn't there's nothing more to talk about and you cut it off completely.
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Originally Posted by Br0kengirl
I don't remember all the foods but they were expensive. I remember because he took pictures and the receipt was hundreds of dollars.
No wonder the dude can't get a date. That's the most pathetic thing I've ever read.
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