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You're right, my gut screams at me that this guy is bad news which is why I didn't meet up with him in the first place. I feel a bit trapped though because of his blackmail and threats. He's totally obsessed with me for some reason. If he even finds this thread displaying my distrust for him, he'll go absolutely berserk, begin with the threats to ruin my life and even try to bring innocent people like my family into it. He won't stop stalking me or monitoring my online activity on other forums that he knows I post on.
He even hires people to harass me. One time he hired a man to pretend to be some girl to try to get information out of me, and that man kept it up for days. Another time he shared my personal information and pictures with a sexual predator who then posted my pictures publicly. I got them removed quickly, but I still feel uncomfortable knowing that many unsavory people have my information and pictures.
This guy has his hooks deep into me and I can't escape. I feel like I'm trapped in some abusive relationship that isn't even real. I don't know what to do.
With the offerings of affection and money and threats if I don't comply, he has me completely under his control.
Whoa, this is burying the lede. Are we being catfished now?
You're right, my gut screams at me that this guy is bad news which is why I didn't meet up with him in the first place. I feel a bit trapped though because of his blackmail and threats. He's totally obsessed with me for some reason. If he even finds this thread displaying my distrust for him, he'll go absolutely berserk, begin with the threats to ruin my life and even try to bring innocent people like my family into it. He won't stop stalking me or monitoring my online activity on other forums that he knows I post on.
He even hires people to harass me. One time he hired a man to pretend to be some girl to try to get information out of me, and that man kept it up for days. Another time he shared my personal information and pictures with a sexual predator who then posted my pictures publicly. I got them removed quickly, but I still feel uncomfortable knowing that many unsavory people have my information and pictures.
This guy has his hooks deep into me and I can't escape. I feel like I'm trapped in some abusive relationship that isn't even real. I don't know what to do.
With the offerings of affection and money and threats if I don't comply, he has me completely under his control.
Okay so your original post was that you were wondering what we thought of a person dating a guy for money versus performing back-breaking menial labor jobs that don't pay as much.
I vote for menial labor jobs, it'll give you much more to do with your hands and creative imagination.
Whoa, this is burying the lede. Are we being catfished now?
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This doesn't sound crazy and made-up at all.
I genuinely wish it was all made up, but unfortunately I was too careless with my information and trusted the wrong people. I feel like the biggest idiot in the world. Never again will I make such a reckless mistake, hopefully.
But if he's this horrible to me online then it'll only get worse in real life, right? And like someone said in this thread no amount of money could make up for that. I'm so lost and confused.
I genuinely wish it was all made up, but unfortunately I was too careless with my information and trusted the wrong people. I feel like the biggest idiot in the world. Never again will I make such a reckless mistake, hopefully.
But if he's this horrible to me online then it'll only get worse in real life, right? And like someone said in this thread no amount of money could make up for that. I'm so lost and confused.
He hasn't bought me anything over the internet yet. He refuses to give me anything until I meet up with him in person. He said he's fine with buying me nice things and giving me money, but only in person because he doesn't want to get scammed. Is that a red flag?
There are so many red flags with this whole scenario, it's difficult to count them all.
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