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Well sometime last year, he flew to my state to meet me, but I had a lot of anxiety at that time and didn't want to meet up with a guy who called me a "below average nonwhite." So I didn't show up when he flew here to meet me.
Any sane person would've told you to take a hike after flying to meet you and getting stood up. Period. I'm calling BS. Stop watching Catfish at 3am and thinking it's your life.
This guy has his hooks deep into me and I can't escape. I feel like I'm trapped in some abusive relationship that isn't even real. I don't know what to do.
So you think you should meet him & make it real? Then you can be in a real life abusive relationship? Yeah, that's a good idea
If this isn't completely made up, this guy is a predator. There are places he could go to get his fantasies fulfilled. They don't come cheap, but hey, he has money. They're not prostitutes, but these service providers can fulfill certain types of kinky fantasies. But here's the kicker, they are real people who expect to be treated with respect & even friendliness, outside of the role play/fantasy scenario. They wouldn't accept a client who treated them like sh%t. There are also clubs where people will act out these scenarios for free, for mutual pleasure & looks are not at all important to most of these people. But guess what? They can spot a predator a mile away. There are plenty of places he could get his worship fantasies fulfilled but he won't b/c they'll see him for what he really is.
Instead of going to such a service or club, he's put over a year's worth of time in to get a naive young woman with low self esteem to partake. Ask yourself why would he do that? Maybe he's truly an abusive predator.
Personally, I'd rather never have a relationship in my entire life, than have one with an abusive predator. But I have self esteem. You DO know what to do. Just do it. You really can & will do better than this.
Are you so desperate to be in a relationship you would prostitute yourself like this???????
If a guy told me he was dating me "because he has low standards" I would tell him he has exactly 10 seconds to completely remove himself from my airspace before he gets backhanded with all of the strength I can muster.
Run away, if he is already being so disrespectful to you, run. And how do you know he is rich? People can say anything online & he may be willing to sell you into human trafficking. Do not be tempted by phony promises.
Are you so desperate to be in a relationship you would prostitute yourself like this???????
If a guy told me he was dating me "because he has low standards" I would tell him he has exactly 10 seconds to completely remove himself from my airspace before he gets backhanded with all of the strength I can muster.
Contrapagan,
Roflmao---- all women should (including myself) should value themselves this way! Wow tons of heartbreak abuse and wasted time would be avoided.. TBH I wish to God I had that same attitude way back when my boyfriend started to become abusive and crossed some lines-- instead of leaving I kept moving the lines and I learned the hard way when a man starts to abuse you it will become a way of life eventually
OP
I recently crawled out of a long term abusive relationship-- I understand in your position the thought of financial perks is tempting- pls run away , change your number and email etc. Unfortunately I can now vouch as the victim in a felony dv case, no dinner at a restaurant will in the end be worth abuse. The fact he told you that your below average but he's willing to date you, has now set a standard for how he will treat you if you get involved w him-- if this is for real and he said that , it could mean he's trying to find a woman w super low self esteem who's willing to be mistreated and then from there you can count on him treating you worse over time- do you want to be the next state's witness in a felony dv case?
He took pictures of the receipt? What a class act. You should be more worried about being scammed, yourself. You've never met this person. Is this guy who he says he is, or has he just concocted a weird sex slave fantasy?
Plus I am sure if you google fancy meal receipts, you can get hundreds of images, it does not mean he actually ate it or paid for it. If he doesn't leave his room, often,. how did he go to eat all these fancy foods?
I agree, with others, that if you actually want to prostitute yourself, go local.
Or else find a second (legitimate) job & start to save some money & treat yourself to a nice meal, out.
Plus I am sure if you google fancy meal receipts, you can get hundreds of images, it does not mean he actually ate it or paid for it. If he doesn't leave his room, often,. how did he go to eat all these fancy foods?
I agree, with others, that if you actually want to prostitute yourself, go local.
Or else find a second (legitimate) job & start to save some money & treat yourself to a nice meal, out.
No doubt. I recall one bottle service receipt tab making the social media rounds a few months ago, I think the total was $150K or something. I'm so out of the social media loop that I don't even do FB & I remember seeing this, so I'm sure someone who put some effort towards it, could easily find ones that look legit.
If you don't care about pimping out your body you'd be better off stripping.
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