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Long story short, I had a real thing for a 36-yo attractive women living in my complex who has never been married but has managed to sneak in 4 or 5 cats into her apartment. Anyway, in her fb postings she's always b*tching about how lonely she is and how she wants to cry every-time she ovulates. The weird part is that she is actually quite attractive and takes good care of herself.
Now when we've seen each-other we've always managed to hit it off well and I've always been fairly open in my flirting that she seems to respond to fairly well. I texted her over the phone today asking if I could take her out, but never got anything back. Not a simple no thank you or nothing.
I suppose in the long run it makes for a good story, getting rejected by some single cat lady.
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Originally Posted by santafe400
I never implied that she owes me a chance lol. I just find it surprising that she has been single for god knows how long, and since we always appear to hit it off - why I haven't heard anything back. Not even a simple "you're a nice guy but" blow-off. BTW our apt. complex has a 2 cat limit.
You do not sound like a nice person. And repeatedly pointing out the illegal cats makes me think you are going to report her because she doesn't want to go out with you. Please don't do that.
I don't know, but I'd steer around a woman who is 36 and "cries when she ovulates". She might think her biological clock is running.
Any sane person would steer around her if she is what OP describes. What if she answers and wants to go out with him, is it then okay that is is b*tching and whining and illegally has cats?
I'm not reporting her cats, it's none of my business. Everything has been blown way out of proportion lol. I'm not calling her some "crazy" cat lady, I'm only calling her a cat lady because she lives alone with 4 cats in a 900 sq ft. apt.
Any sane person would steer around her if she is what OP describes. What if she answers and wants to go out with him, is it then okay that is is b*tching and whining and illegally has cats?
Good question.
If she says yes, does she morph from ridiculous laughable person to point out on the internet as crazy, ovary-driven and an illegal cat hoarder, to one heck of a nice gal to spend a Saturday night with?
Long story short, I had a real thing for a 36-yo attractive women living in my complex who has never been married but has managed to sneak in 4 or 5 cats into her apartment. Anyway, in her fb postings she's always b*tching about how lonely she is and how she wants to cry every-time she ovulates. The weird part is that she is actually quite attractive and takes good care of herself.
Now when we've seen each-other we've always managed to hit it off well and I've always been fairly open in my flirting that she seems to respond to fairly well. I texted her over the phone today asking if I could take her out, but never got anything back. Not a simple no thank you or nothing.
I suppose in the long run it makes for a good story, getting rejected by some single cat lady.
Moral of the story is:
Just because someone is lonely does not mean s/he is desperate.
Well...so...she doesn't like you...her having cats doesn't mean she should have liked you more, LOL. As for the whole "I'm desperate" thing, as you said, if she's attractive overall, she could have a dude and babies now...she's probably not ready yet. So she says all the right stuff to get friends off her back on FB about "when are you getting married?"
That's just a hunch, I mean I don't know this lady.
Cats or no cats, ovulation or no ovulation, she has the right to date guys she's into just as you have the right to date women you're into.
Long story short, I had a real thing for a 36-yo attractive women living in my complex who has never been married but has managed to sneak in 4 or 5 cats into her apartment. Anyway, in her fb postings she's always b*tching about how lonely she is and how she wants to cry every-time she ovulates. The weird part is that she is actually quite attractive and takes good care of herself.
Now when we've seen each-other we've always managed to hit it off well and I've always been fairly open in my flirting that she seems to respond to fairly well. I texted her over the phone today asking if I could take her out, but never got anything back. Not a simple no thank you or nothing.
I suppose in the long run it makes for a good story, getting rejected by some single cat lady.
Hey, watch it.....there is more than one single cat lady on cd...
Ask her again, in person. Asking someone out by text, to me, isn't particularly smart....seems a bit lazy to me. I wouldn't be impressed, if it were me...
I never implied that she owes me a chance lol. I just find it surprising that she has been single for god knows how long, and since we always appear to hit it off - why I haven't heard anything back. Not even a simple "you're a nice guy but" blow-off. BTW our apt. complex has a 2 cat limit.
Some people wind up being single for so long that they end up being rather uneasy about dating.
OP, you screwed up when you asked her if you could take her out. That's a bit on the cucky side. She's probably picturing you as the type of guy who asks if it's okay to kiss and never takes charge. Next time you ask someone out, name a place and a day.
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