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Well, if you're OK with supporting him, driving him where he needs to go, cooking for him, and doing his laundry, all while he plays video games, then sure, go ahead and date this 47 year old boy. If you prefer to date responsible adults, look elsewhere.
Yes, I know. Thats another thing that I would say is a red flag. 47yo and never married.
Is being never married a red flag? Why? Where?
There are many people who BY CHOICE never get married and are very happy with that. There are people that date, have SO, even live together and still never get married. Living single is how they live their most meaningful and fulfilling lives.
Other single people won’t marry just for the sake of marrying. They have standards. That doesn’t make them “too picky” - it makes them wise.
And there are people who have practical concerns: they simply do not want the financial or legal entanglements that marriage entails.
What's wrong with that?
Marriage is waning in popularity in contemporary culture. You will encounter more and more people who are single and happy!
I don't think there's anything wrong with him living at home. He may be there to help his mom out with the house. When our parents age it becomes quite a burden to take care of a home by themselves. I'd say give this a guy a shot, see where it goes, it may turn out that he's a really nice guy. Now if your looking for a relationship with a man who has more security and material wealth, then hes probably not the guy for you.
Right. He helps her by allowing her to cook his meals and do his laundry.
He asked if he can cook me dinner at my place this weekend, and stay overnight. Up until this point we haven't had sex. Just some fooling around. As much as I am attracted to him and enjoy his company, and I am also not comfortable with this.
I think being in each others homes was a bit too quick. Maybe after dinner at his place (and mom's) you can go back to doing things out in public.
hmm, Petunia, you dont know if he helps his mom out. She may enjoy cooking for him, and doing his laundry. Some moms are like that. He may do a lot of the work in the house.
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