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Old 11-12-2008, 03:25 PM
 
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I would wait...it's easier for me though, since I am waiting too...I have made it 22 years, I can make it until I am married.

Luckily my girlfriend feels the same way. There is a little more to marriage than sex, in my opinion.
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Old 11-12-2008, 03:30 PM
 
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If you met the woman that was everything you ever wanted and more, but she was celibate (just waiting til marriage), would that be a deal breaker for you? And please be honest
This is the story of my life and my friends always tell me the guys I date say they wish I wasnt celibate or they'd be with me. I guess sex trumps the person as a whole
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Old 11-12-2008, 03:58 PM
 
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I would wait...it's easier for me though, since I am waiting too...I have made it 22 years, I can make it until I am married.

Luckily my girlfriend feels the same way. There is a little more to marriage than sex, in my opinion.
HA!
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Old 11-12-2008, 03:59 PM
 
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She has herpes! She doesn't want to tell you.

After you are married she will say, "If you love me it shouldn't matter."

Whatever!
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Old 11-12-2008, 04:46 PM
 
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When I was a young teenager, I thought I would wait until I got married. And I actually held off for sometime and rejected some overtures at that age to jump right in.

I think now having all the different life experience I've had, if someone wanted to wait until they got married, I don't know if I could. I don't see it being realistic.
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Old 11-12-2008, 04:47 PM
 
Location: southern california
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i would enjoy her company very much. probably the sex in your head is always better than the sex in the bed.
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Old 11-12-2008, 04:49 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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If you met the woman that was everything you ever wanted and more, but she was celibate (just waiting til marriage), would that be a deal breaker for you? And please be honest
I'd wish her the best as I went to find someone who wants to do it.

I like Japan. In Japan, sex is seen as a natural bodily function. If a person there likes you - they'll do you. There's no hangups about religion. A boob is a boob. You see women using soap on TV in the tub. These women are naked.
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Old 11-12-2008, 04:50 PM
 
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does she not do foreplay or oral? I mean hello. You're not living unless you're making out.
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Old 11-12-2008, 04:59 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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If you met the woman that was everything you ever wanted and more, but she was celibate (just waiting til marriage), would that be a deal breaker for you? And please be honest
My only fear would be once we were married and found out that the sex is just boring or no chemistry in that department.

It's like buying a car without taking it for a test drive.


Sorry to be kinda blunt.
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Old 11-12-2008, 07:05 PM
 
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Well It would be a deal breaker for me because I don't plan on getting married so what in the heck am I waiting for?

I know without a doubt if I am going to get the goods or not from a gal. I do not try and sleep with every female I meet nor do I want to.

I think in this day and age the "wait untill marriage" thing is way overrated.

I can understand if both parties involved are virgins but this thought process, based on my experience, comes from women that have slept around, have been hurt emotionaly in a relationship or a combination of the two and now they feel abstaining from sex is the cure all until "Mr. Right" comes along, when in reality that's hardly the case.


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If you met the woman that was everything you ever wanted and more, but she was celibate (just waiting til marriage), would that be a deal breaker for you? And please be honest

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