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Location: Partisanship Is An Intellectual/Emotional Handicap
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Originally Posted by Danbo1957
What's the absolute "deal-breaker" in a new relationship?
You meet someone, hit it off fast. You're smiling every minute of the day after you met him/her. Five dates in, he/she says/does something that turns you completely off... instantly. What is it?
If I find a penis under her skirt, that pretty much is a deal-breaker for me.
You meet someone, hit it off fast. You're smiling every minute of the day after you met him/her. Five dates in, he/she says/does something that turns you completely off... instantly. What is it?
For me, any illegal drug use, or abuse of other drugs and/or alcohol.
LYING, about anything any more significant than whether they are enjoying their expensive gourmet dinner.
- Negativity, complaining, nagging
- Reads less than 10 books a year
- Smoking/ingesting tobacco products
- using physically addictive drugs (including prescription)
- Antidepressants
- One too many stories regarding her bad karma behavior, or has long-term close friends with history of bad karma behavior (i.e. previous boyfriend was a gun-carrying, cocaine-dealing gangster)
- doesn't like / not good at PDA (public displays of affection)
- "like totally, you know, I was all, like, you know, totally, and he was all, like, you know, totally all like, that, you know what I mean, I mean, my bad, like, whatever."
- more than a couple tattoos & piercings
- she has to be choked to get off
- can't get off at all
- during sex she doesn't move
- Golden showers
Nearly all these I find out before the date or definitely by 2nd date; so "five dates in..." means the guy's a little slow to pick up on the details, ya know, like, she's all, like, you know, like that, it's crazy, she's all, like, my bad, like, whatever, you know?
HAHAHAHAHA, you are HILARIOUS!!! This is one of the best responses i have ever ever read
1. Emotionally Unstable. If she's taking meds, that's okay, but she needs to be on meds for it.
2. Controlling. I want to be around her, but I need my freedom too.
3. Judgmental. I CANNOT STAND the "I'm better than him/her/you" attitude.
4. Messy lifestyle. I don't want to be battling clutter and mess at home the rest of my life.
5. Doesn't take care of herself. She doesn't have to be super hot, but I like a girl who exercises, eats fairly well and tries to be fit. It tells me a lot about how she values herself.
No hard drugs.
No alcohol induced crazy behavior.
No foul body odors.
No hard biting in sensitive areas.
Soft biting is OK.
So far the wife is doing alright.
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