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Old 05-16-2009, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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You meet someone, hit it off fast. You're smiling every minute of the day after you met him/her. Five dates in, he/she says/does something that turns you completely off... instantly. What is it?

For me, any illegal drug use, or abuse of other drugs and/or alcohol.
Fiscal irresponsibility.
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Old 05-17-2009, 07:23 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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I'd get with a geezer before I got with a botox queen. Not much different then a blow up doll, as far as how fake they are. Growing old with grace and confidence is sexy.
Ok, I was kidding. Nothing worse than when people overdo it with plastic surgery. That being said, there's nothing wrong with doing some things to take care of yourself and look your best.
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Old 05-17-2009, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Ok, I was kidding. Nothing worse than when people overdo it with plastic surgery. That being said, there's nothing wrong with doing some things to take care of yourself and look your best.
That's a long ways off for me. A really long way, considering I could still pass for 16. I suppose my youthful appearence will benefit me when I reach your age. Maybe I'll prowl for youngins like you do in another 19 years (holy crap that's a long time from now).
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Old 05-17-2009, 12:08 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Having your partner urinate on you. To me, that is an issue of low self esteem.

Seriously, having your partner pee on you???
Take me to your special place, close your eyes, show me your face. p1$$ on you, I just wanna p1$$ on you
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Old 05-17-2009, 01:31 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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That's a long ways off for me. A really long way, considering I could still pass for 16. I suppose my youthful appearence will benefit me when I reach your age. Maybe I'll prowl for youngins like you do in another 19 years (holy crap that's a long time from now).
Yeah, it is a long time! And I'm happy to be here, truthfully I wouldn't want to repeat a) high school--hated it, I was bored to tears, b) most of my twenties when I was unsure of myself and what I wanted to do in life and was broke because I went back to school for my second degree. I usually pass for 28, and I don't prowl for youngins, for some reason they come to me. I try to keep it withini a decade, thank you.
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Old 05-17-2009, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Yeah, it is a long time! And I'm happy to be here, truthfully I wouldn't want to repeat a) high school--hated it, I was bored to tears, b) most of my twenties when I was unsure of myself and what I wanted to do in life and was broke because I went back to school for my second degree. I usually pass for 28, and I don't prowl for youngins, for some reason they come to me. I try to keep it withini a decade, thank you.
Sure you do, if you could go back knowing the things you do now. Well, maybe not. Although I had a blast in high school, I don't think I'd wanna go through it again. The things I would have changed and mistakes made have lead me to be who I am today, and I'm mighty fine with that. I could remember wanting to fast foward my life 10 years back then, and still think it would be nice on occasion (college classes suck), but the trick is to be happy where you're at. You only live once, so you gotta embrace each and every step of the way.

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Old 05-18-2009, 08:30 AM
 
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You meet someone, hit it off fast. You're smiling every minute of the day after you met him/her. Five dates in, he/she says/does something that turns you completely off... instantly. What is it?

For me, any illegal drug use, or abuse of other drugs and/or alcohol.
One man I dated said (a couple of months into our dating) that OJ Simpson had the right to beat and ultimately kill Nicole because "she was his woman and she pissed him off, also it happened in his house". As to Ron Goldman, my date said that this was just an "accident" of Ron being in the wrong place at the wrong time and in any event, he "shouldn't have been in another man's home without that man's permission". Two thoughts kept going through my mind: (1) Thank G-d I haven't slept with this guy yet, because if I had, I'd be afraid for my life now; and (2) Is having kissed him and having gone out on 5-6 dates enough in this guy's mind to give him a right to physically attack me for pissing him off? Incidentally, that was also the last time I would ever go out with someone from the Middle East.
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Old 05-18-2009, 09:43 AM
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Location: Western WA
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drug user, skanky, overly flirtatious with other guys, smokes, drinks to the point of needing a baby sitter, talks like a sailor, snobby, can't keep rude remarks about others to herself, complains/nags a lot, socialist ideologue, and psycho.
Wow sounds kinda like my gf, which I hate those qualities about her too! Mostly the smoking though.... That is the biggest turn off, a woman that reeks of tobacco smoke
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Old 05-18-2009, 10:00 AM
 
Location: indiana
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A guy that does not love or respect his mom or dad.If a guy can not get close to his own parents how would I even have a chance.
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Old 05-18-2009, 11:53 AM
 
Location: OKC
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The hint of an adam apple.
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