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Taking me for granted and spreading herself too thin.
It's good to have friends but if she is too busy keeping track of all of her friends, then she's not going to have much time for me. As the guy that is on track to becoming the most important person in her life (her husband) I expect to have at least one night a week (at the beginning), and as the relationship grows more than one, and eventually a lot of time together.
Oh and getting to chummy with other guys. I am a salsa dancer and if she gets too flirtatious with another guy on the dance floor, I'm going to keep an eye on her. If she asks a guy who to dance bachata (a very sexy dance) especially if she knows that he dances bachata very intimately, then I start to think she's not very loyal.
You meet someone, hit it off fast. You're smiling every minute of the day after you met him/her. Five dates in, he/she says/does something that turns you completely off... instantly. What is it?
For me, any illegal drug use, or abuse of other drugs and/or alcohol.
Location: Pelion, South Carolina/orig. from Cape May, NJ
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This is a good list. I will add:
Finding out he has kids was an absolute deal breaker for me. No thanks!
Seeing a bit too much attachment to mommy.
Talking about ex-gf or wife all the time.
I hear ya. I'll add " I owe thousands in child support and my kid's mom is a psycho-*****" to that list.
I'd just imagine it would be tough trying to explain it to the grandkids
Well by that time I would assume that's an area you would keep covered, noone needs to see that at 80! I would hope not too many are prancing around in bikins unless they've had a really good plastic surgeon! lol...(I'm gonna have one on call!)
If you're talking about a NEW relationship, like the first 6 months of dating, I would say definitely flakiness and unreliability. When a person can't keep their word, they cancel dates, break plans (unless with a GREAT excuse), show up late, don't call when they say they should, etc. If that's what they do when they are trying to impress you, imagine how they would be after 5 years of marriage?
Other deal breakers are, they don't get along with their family, are inconsiderate, rude, or lack basic social skills, seem to have a tendency to screw up their lives by their poor decision making, (i.e. they have an ex-wife and child), are unemployed or unintelligent, and don't take care of their business (paying their bills, taking care of traffic tickets, etc.).
Well by that time I would assume that's an area you would keep covered, noone needs to see that at 80! I would hope not too many are prancing around in bikins unless they've had a really good plastic surgeon! lol...(I'm gonna have one on call!)
I'd get with a geezer before I got with a botox queen. Not much different then a blow up doll, as far as how fake they are. Growing old with grace and confidence is sexy.
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I'll add " I owe thousands in child support and my kid's mom is a psycho-*****" to that list.
