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Old 05-15-2009, 11:40 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Jason, I get ya. I was just saying, since you said I seem to have my prorities in order, that's all. Wouldn't necessarily make me want to be with someone either, I just happen to think it's a plus...and I would probably run like hell too if I found out someone had a ton of debt! lol..
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Old 05-15-2009, 11:45 AM
 
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Jason, I get ya. I was just saying, since you said I seem to have my prorities in order, that's all. Wouldn't necessarily make me want to be with someone either, I just happen to think it's a plus...and I would probably run like hell too if I found out someone had a ton of debt! lol..

I'm actually more guarded against women who are into me for things I have (materialism). Its more of a stereotype than anything, most women I meet seem to genuinely like me and not money, cars, or how much I make. I used to have fun (when I was younger) going out and getting drunk, then telling women what I had or how much I made and if they seemed interested I would blow them off completely. Its probably demented and sick now that I think about it but it was funny. It also backfired a couple times because some girls got turned off and then when I would try and pick them up they would ignore me because they thought I was materialistic. Oh well.
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Old 05-15-2009, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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1) Early sex talk

2) Being too clingy. I can't stand clingy dudes and dudes who sweat me too much.


3) Finding out he has multiple kids by multiple women.

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Old 05-15-2009, 11:48 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Ok, multiple kids by multiple women would be a definite not! Clinginess..no good, and too much talk about sex and trying to get you into bed all the time from day one too quickly and talking about nothing else...just annoying.
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Old 05-15-2009, 11:52 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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I'm actually more guarded against women who are into me for things I have (materialism). Its more of a stereotype than anything, most women I meet seem to genuinely like me and not money, cars, or how much I make. I used to have fun (when I was younger) going out and getting drunk, then telling women what I had or how much I made and if they seemed interested I would blow them off completely. Its probably demented and sick now that I think about it but it was funny. It also backfired a couple times because some girls got turned off and then when I would try and pick them up they would ignore me because they thought I was materialistic. Oh well.
Ha ha..yeah that totally backfired! Actually, I don't care what someone has or how much money they have, frankly, I've met a few with $$$ that were ah's. Sorry, don't care how much money you have if your an AH. Myself, I'm not looking for a meal ticket. I do quite well on my own, thank you. However, I don't want to carry anyone else..I need an equal. Seems like finding a needle in a haystack these days...
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Old 05-15-2009, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Texas
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drug user, skanky, overly flirtatious with other guys, smokes, drinks to the point of needing a baby sitter, talks like a sailor, snobby, can't keep rude remarks about others to herself, complains/nags a lot, socialist ideologue, and psycho.
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Old 05-15-2009, 12:01 PM
 
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Ha ha..yeah that totally backfired! Actually, I don't care what someone has or how much money they have, frankly, I've met a few with $$$ that were ah's. Sorry, don't care how much money you have if your an AH. Myself, I'm not looking for a meal ticket. I do quite well on my own, thank you. However, I don't want to carry anyone else..I need an equal. Seems like finding a needle in a haystack these days...

Tell me about it. I have problems finding someone my own age who fits my profile. Most women my own age already have kids, baggage, or are bitter about men due to previous relationships. I end up going for ones a bit younger than myself but even then, a good one is rare. In the past I think I have moved around too much to really make time/effort to attempt a serious relationship. Now that I am settled down and content I find myself living on an island (literally). I'm more to the point now of just saying if its ment to happen it will happen, and I have learned to stop trying to hinge my happiness to being in a relationship. My cat seems to enjoy my companionship.

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Old 05-15-2009, 12:02 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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drug user, skanky, overly flirtatious with other guys, smokes, drinks to the point of needing a baby sitter, talks like a sailor, snobby, can't keep rude remarks about others to herself, complains/nags a lot, socialist ideologue, and psycho.
Wow! You said a mouthful! What you don't find those qualities attractive? lol..
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Old 05-15-2009, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Wow! You said a mouthful! What you don't find those qualities attractive? lol..
I suppose I could make an exception to drug user if she just smoked a little grass here and there. all the others aren't negotiable. I'm young and there are way too many women around to be putting up with anything I listed as a deal breaker.
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Old 05-15-2009, 12:16 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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I suppose I could make an exception to drug user if she just smoked a little grass here and there. all the others aren't negotiable. I'm young and there are way too many women around to be putting up with anything I listed as a deal breaker.
So you would consider 420 friendly minus the other stuff? I'm in! I'm in! lol...
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