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View Poll Results: Please place an answer that best applies. Then elaborate on the forum.
Yes I am straight but I had same sex/gay attractions in the past. 16 22.86%
Yes I am straight but I have never had same sex attraction. 46 65.71%
I am Bisexual but lead a straight life. 8 11.43%
Voters: 70. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-03-2011, 12:35 PM
 
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I am a 40 year old male and I am very curious. So much that I definitely wish to "experiment". However, I would prefer to hook up anonymously. Where can I go to do this?
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Old 06-03-2015, 12:07 AM
 
Location: South Texas
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Is it safe to say that women are more bi-curious then men? What do you guys think?
More bi-curious than men? I don't know.

More open about their bi-curiosity? Definitely.
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Old 06-03-2015, 12:25 AM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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Last time I checked a lot of the gay men I knew appreciate younger men with athletic builds not old men.
That only a myth that keeps getting perpetuated continually!
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Old 06-03-2015, 12:35 AM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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Now, I'm curious, Artsy. Would a man who does not like men, but enjoys a sexual act that would be considered gay, be considered confused? Or would it just be an erogenous zone thing?
Having worked as a Gay male massage therapist, I will say conclusively that there are Straight men who enjoy being serviced by a Gay male, but remain Straight through the entire experiences. Not Gay in the least!

I've had several straight men come for the massage and happy ending, over the years, and they never so much as touched me ever!

Now! If they begin to touch, and want to reciprocate, in some way, then the doubts creep in as to whether they're truly Straight, Bi or a closeted Gay person!

Now, there were those straight men who came for massage/happy ending, and it happened, they felt too much pleasure, it threw their sexual identity out of kilter, and they jumped off the table, dressed, and left!

Those are the ones you really wonder about!
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Old 06-03-2015, 12:51 AM
 
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Dipped my toes in the homo pond half way about 18 years ago. I had a work friend at the store I worked at who was like that, somehow convinced me that he could "go down on me" and it would feel the same as a girl. I had just broken up with my girlfriend and was fragile.

He went down there, after about 2 minutes I looked down...went limp and freaked out and told him to get off me and get out of my house.
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Old 06-03-2015, 01:00 AM
 
Location: Sydney, Australia
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I'm a gay man and I "forced" myself to have opposite sex attraction. It wasn't pleasant. And I never, if rarely, had a genuine attraction to a woman. The farthest I go is "wow, beautiful", just the same way I compliment a flower or a mountain.

I'm pretty sure that most straight men (and women) would feel this way towards the opposite sex.
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Old 06-03-2015, 01:04 AM
 
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I'm doing a poll with the utmost respect to everybody involved and everybody that reads this: If you are a straight man at any time in your life were you ever confused or curious in regards to having same sex (gay) attractions?

If so could you tell us about that experience? How long did it last? What type of guy did you have a crush on? Did anything develop? How did you decide you were to be straight?
Um a straight male would never have those feelings or desires.
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Old 06-03-2015, 01:05 AM
 
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I am a 40 year old male and I am very curious. So much that I definitely wish to "experiment". However, I would prefer to hook up anonymously. Where can I go to do this?
grindr

google it
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Old 06-03-2015, 01:07 AM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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I'm a gay man and I "forced" myself to have opposite sex attraction. It wasn't pleasant. And I never, if rarely, had a genuine attraction to a woman. The farthest I go is "wow, beautiful", just the same way I compliment a flower or a mountain.

I'm pretty sure that most straight men (and women) would feel this way towards the opposite sex.
I'm Gay, too, and my sexual identity usually gets confused when I get to an open red light district, like when I was in Bangkok and Amsterdam. But! I'm only attracted to the female body from the waste up!

I did enjoy one Hooker in Amsterdam, but I instructed her to keep her pants on, as I wasn't interested in that territory at all!
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Old 06-03-2015, 01:20 AM
 
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I'm Gay, too, and my sexual identity usually gets confused when I get to an open red light district, like when I was in Bangkok and Amsterdam. But! I'm only attracted to the female body from the waste up!
You're definitely not attracted to hookers from the "waste" up, although you may be from the waist up.
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