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I went to a urologist to get checked for a bladder infection, and this guy snaps on the old gloves and says "Well, might as well get this out of the way".
I'm like WTF
When he was done I asked him to take another look in there as I think he left his watch behind.
They should at least buy you dinner before they do that to you.
You confuse two things that should be kept separate: experimentation and attraction.
I've made out with women-- I've had sex with other women-- but it was experimentation. I'm not sexually attracted to women. I had a desire to see what was behind Door Number 2, I went for it and I learned something about myself.
All things said, I'm extremely open about my sex life. But although I enjoyed myself-- another point not to be confused with attraction-- I don't identify myself as being gay. Or even bi.
I pity people who don't experiment. It's a wonderful time of your life to find who you are, what you enjoy and to learn what it is that you want. I think failed relationships stem from the fact that most people are still trying to grow as people, to experiment and know, which is a phase that you usually enter around college.
Sorry, but some of us don't need to "experiment" with certain things to know. I don't have to experiment with the flavor of dog excrement to know I don't want it, and I don't have to experiment sexually with men to know I don't want it. If I had to try one, it would be the dog stuff.
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Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate
I meant the other way around. If he enjoys a particular act that would be considered gay, but doesn't like men.
Are you referring to back door entry or what? If so, it's only considered a gay act by the misinformed. As far as I know, gay and straight men both have the same type of nerve endings in their various body parts (lips, necks, etc.). The difference is that gay men would prefer those nerve endings to be stimulated by a guy, and straight men would prefer they're stimulated by a woman. Granted, some straight guys are afraid to try certain types of stimulation, even from a hot chick. It's partly a macho thing, partly an inexperience thing. I can remember being that way. Luckily I had a wife who just wouldn't take no for an answer.
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Originally Posted by thriftylefty
They should at least buy you dinner before they do that to you.
*LMAO* I've gotta remember that one!
I told my doc exactly what my wife told me to tell him. "Oh yeah! Deeper!" He left me alone for a few years after that, even though I told him it was a joke hatched by my wife.
My doctor gets embarrassed at any mention of sex. It used to bug my late wife, because she couldn't ask him anything of a sexual nature or he'd turn red and start stammering. I discovered the same thing about him. It's not a good trait for a doctor to have! (But it can be fun.)
I went to a urologist to get checked for a bladder infection, and this guy snaps on the old gloves and says "Well, might as well get this out of the way".
I'm like WTF
When he was done I asked him to take another look in there as I think he left his watch behind.
You were violated by the urologist? Is that in their job description?
I went to a urologist to get checked for a bladder infection, and this guy snaps on the old gloves and says "Well, might as well get this out of the way".
I'm like WTF
When he was done I asked him to take another look in there as I think he left his watch behind.
Now you know how women feel at the gyno.
Except we have to start that much, much earlier in life.
Most men don't start having these invasive type examinations until they're at least forty.
By that age, women have already been having pelvic exams for twenty or twenty-five years.
The only defense is just to be philosophical about it.
Now you know how women feel at the gyno.
Except we have to start that much, much earlier in life.
Most men don't start having these invasive type examinations until they're at least forty.
By that age, women have already been having pelvic exams for twenty or twenty-five years.
The only defense is just to be philosophical about it.
I wish I knew it was coming, you go there thinking one thing and then BAM.
I had it done when I was about 36. I was hoping to make it to 40 but life is such.
Well me start out by saying that I'm in a relationship so I'm not looking.....but I occasionally check out Craigslist and it's amazing the number of "married" men that are on there looking for a "discreet buddy" to hang out with.
And before anyone asks what I'm doing looking on Craigslist my answer to that is that I'm an adult and I can!
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He left me alone for a few years after that, even though I told him it was a joke hatched by my wife.
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