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View Poll Results: Please place an answer that best applies. Then elaborate on the forum.
Yes I am straight but I had same sex/gay attractions in the past. 16 22.86%
Yes I am straight but I have never had same sex attraction. 46 65.71%
I am Bisexual but lead a straight life. 8 11.43%
Voters: 70. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-25-2009, 04:56 AM
 
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See now I'm curious, I'm going to have to hunt one down just to put up, invite one of my female friends over sometime and see how many times they peer up at it, before they either a) hoof it out in as fast a manner as possible, or b) ask me what the heck is wrong with me.

Knowing me fairly well though, they'd just see through it and chuckle.
If it makes you feel better, Pat was a woman. Julia Sweeny. Or so they claim.
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Old 05-25-2009, 07:21 AM
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getting my prostrate check removed all doubt, no I am not into guys,
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Old 05-25-2009, 11:08 AM
 
Location: USA
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Ha ha that is hilarious. I don't remember that episode at all though. That character George is great because he is always so edgy and insecure about everything. I bet there are thousands of guys out there that are like George.

"My name is George, I am unemployed, and I live at my parents."
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Old 05-25-2009, 11:10 AM
 
Location: USA
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According to Kinsey not everybody is 100% straight. This topic is legitimate for some men.

The problem with authorities and studies is...


They haven't talked to you and me.

And they can get information to back any side or view they take.
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Old 05-25-2009, 11:11 AM
 
Location: southern california
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men in boyhood develop crushes on a male figure that they admire a great deal.
whether that turns into sex depends on the creep that is being admired.

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Old 05-25-2009, 11:21 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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Absolutely not. Men and women have completely different bodies and body shapes, therefore, if he does the act on a woman then it is completely straight.
I meant the other way around. If he enjoys a particular act that would be considered gay, but doesn't like men.
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Old 05-25-2009, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Mountain View, CA
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I hope I don't get banned from this "guy question" as I am female...but I just wanted to point out that nearly every guy I have known/befriended/dated/married had what I would call (though they STRONGLY would not) "crushes" or strong emotional attractions to at least one other guy.
Women can have other women they "love" and it's no big deal...but a guy has to hide strong caring feelings for other men. I don't know if men were allowed to show those feelings how many would be tempted to take them further than they do.
Yeah, that'd probably be his best friend. There's a big difference between strong emotional attachment between close friends and SEXUAL attraction. Love is an appropriate term. Unfortunately, society has co-opted the term "love" to automatically mean "romantic love."

I have male friends, particularly my best bud, who I am extremely close to, and who, bluntly, I love dearly. But its not romantic love, obviously - its friend love, its analogous to the way you'd love a brother.

This whole phenomenon has zero to do with sexuality. I feel sorry for guys who are too insecure to admit they care about their male friends. They are missing out.
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Old 05-25-2009, 12:05 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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getting my prostrate check removed all doubt, no I am not into guys,
LOL no doubt.

I went to a urologist to get checked for a bladder infection, and this guy snaps on the old gloves and says "Well, might as well get this out of the way".

I'm like WTF


When he was done I asked him to take another look in there as I think he left his watch behind.
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Old 05-25-2009, 12:07 PM
 
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very good point and very true.

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The problem with authorities and studies is...


They haven't talked to you and me.

And they can get information to back any side or view they take.
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Old 05-25-2009, 12:42 PM
 
Location: North America
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When he was done I asked him to take another look in there as I think he left his watch behind.
Ouch! Thankfully I have a very gentle female doctor
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