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View Poll Results: Please place an answer that best applies. Then elaborate on the forum.
Yes I am straight but I had same sex/gay attractions in the past. 16 22.86%
Yes I am straight but I have never had same sex attraction. 46 65.71%
I am Bisexual but lead a straight life. 8 11.43%
Voters: 70. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-24-2009, 10:11 PM
 
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The way you described that locker room makes me want to stay away.
LOL apparently the local club doesn't have much to offer in the way of bodybuilder dancers!

Anyway, no matter how good looking a guy is I can't see myself being physically attracted to him the way I'm physically attracted to a woman. That's not to say I've never felt any kind of attraction toward certain men, just nothing sexual.
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Old 05-24-2009, 10:13 PM
 
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Do you know of any straight men that have been different or have a different side of the story to add to this discussion?


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I've never felt any kind of attraction toward certain men, just nothing sexual.

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Old 05-24-2009, 10:23 PM
 
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According to Kinsey not everybody is 100% straight. This topic is legitimate for some men.
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Old 05-24-2009, 10:28 PM
 
Location: North America
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Do know any straight men that have been different?
Most of the guys I know regularly comment on good looking men. Whether that's just jealousy or some level of physical attraction for at least some of them? I don't know. I doubt many would admit it. It seems you have to be pretty damn sure that you're gay to come out and say so, even in these accepting times.

There's also a severe double standard. Women can be much closer, more physical, and more open to attraction to another woman than men can without being considered gay by 'society'.
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Old 05-24-2009, 10:39 PM
 
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One of the reasons why I ask this is because I have made out with a guy that said he was straight but confused about if he was bi or completely straight.

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All straight men are grossly insecure about their sexuality. I've known a few exceptions, but overall they never really leave 4th grade.
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Most of the guys I know regularly comment on good looking men. Whether that's just jealousy or some level of physical attraction for at least some of them? I don't know. I doubt many would admit it. It seems you have to be pretty damn sure that you're gay to come out and say so, even in these accepting times.

There's also a severe double standard. Women can be much closer, more physical, and more open to attraction to another woman than men can without being considered gay by 'society'.
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Old 05-24-2009, 10:43 PM
 
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Does coming across a porn video of a woman with an obviously fake penis putting said penis into the other woman and finding it arousing constitute "confusion" on my part?
and if said women were both sporting mullets and mustaches would that also count as confusion
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Old 05-24-2009, 10:43 PM
 
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No, I have never had a desire.

Last week, I walked into the mens locker room at golds gym and saw a old man bending over with his butt in the air.

I almost threw up.......right there
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Old 05-24-2009, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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and if said women were both sporting mullets and mustaches would that also count as confusion
Mullets are comin' back, just you wait!
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Old 05-24-2009, 10:47 PM
 
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Coldwine,

I have no clue as to why you say that. My posts on the political forum show that I'm completely for gay rights and gay inclusiveness.

Now, gay men go through coming out phases and sometimes it is not clear cut or there is denial or an experimentation phase before they are finally out.

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Old 05-24-2009, 10:51 PM
 
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Last time I checked a lot of the gay men I knew appreciate younger men with athletic builds not old men.

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No, I have never had a desire.

Last week, I walked into the mens locker room at golds gym and saw a old man bending over with his butt in the air.

I almost threw up.......right there
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